A song about us...

[Nita]

I hope that my lil baby won't hav to sing this song one day.... I will stop all the pain before she will grow.... God help all of us to get rid of this types of fathers... and husbands and boyfriends....

 

Oh Mother Lyrics

Christina Aguilera

 

Whoa, oh, yeah,

 

She was so young with such innocent eyes

She always dreamt of a fairytale life

And all the things that your money can't buy

She thought that he was a wonderful guy

Then suddenly, things seemed to change

It was the moment she took on his name

He took his anger out on her face

She kept all of her pain locked away

 

Oh mother, be stronger

From all of the tears you have shed

Oh mother, don't look back

Cause he'll never hurt us again

 

So mother, I thank you

For all that you've done and still do

You got me, I got you

Together we always pull through

We always pull through

We always pull through

Oh mother, oh mother, oh mother

 

It was the day that he turned on the kids

That she knew she just had to leave him

So many voices inside of her head

Saying over and over and over,

"You deserve much more than this."

 

She was so sick of believing the lies and trying to hide

Covering the cuts and bruises (cuts and bruises)

So tired of defending her life, she could have died

Fighting for the lives of her children

 

Oh mother, be stronger

From all of the tears you have shed (all of the tears you have shed)

Oh mother, don't look back

Cause he'll never hurt us again (he'll never hurt us again)

 

So mother, I thank you (thank you)

For all that you've done and still do (still do)

You got me, I got you, (yeah you got me and I got you)

Together we always pull through.

Oh mother, oh mother, oh mother

 

All of your life you have spent

burying hurt and regret

But mama, he'll never touch us again

 

For everytime he tried to bring you down

Just remember who stood around

It's over, and we're stronger

And we'll never have to go back again

 

Oh mother, bE stronger

From all of the tears you have shed

Oh mother, don't look back (oh mother don't look back again)

Cause he'll never hurt us again (cause he'll never hurt us again)

 

So mother, I thank you (and I thank you for all that you've done)

For all that you've done and still do (together we always move on)

You got me, I got you, (you got me, I got you)

Together we always pull through (always pull through)

We always pull through

We always pull through

 

I love you mom

 

BTW., may be some of u know some more song about abusive love... sometimes songs can help us think and move on .....

[Nita]

one more...

 

Eve "Love Is Blind"

 

Hey, yo I don't even know you and I hate you

See all I know is that my girlfriend used to date you

How would you feel if she held you down and raped you?

Tried and tried, but she never could escape you

She was in love and I'd ask her how? I mean why?

What kind of love from a * * * * * would black your eye?

What kind of love from a * * * * * every night make you cry?

What kind of love from a * * * * * make you wish he would die?

I mean * * * * he bought you things and gave you diamond rings

But them things wasn't worth none of the pain that he brings

And you stayed, what made you fall for him?

That * * * * * had the power to make you crawl for him

I thought you was a doctor be on call for him

Smacked you down cause he said you was too tall for him, huh?

That wasn't love, babygirl you was dreamin'

I could have killed you when you said your seed was growin' from his semen

 

[1] - Love is blind, and it will take over your mind

What you think is love, is truly not

You need to elevate and find

 

I don't even know you and I'd kill you myself

You played with her like a doll and put her back on the shelf

Wouldn't let her go to school and better herself

She had a baby by your ass and you ain't giving no help

Uh-huh big time hustler, snake mother * * * * er

One's born everyday and everyday she was your sucker

How could you beat the mother of your kids?

How could you tell her that you love her?

Don't give a * * * * if she lives

She told me she would leave you, I admit it she did

But came back, made up a lie about you missing your kids

Sweet kisses, baby ain't even know she was your mistress

Had to deal with fist fights and phone calls from your * * * * * es

Floss like you possess her, tellin' me to mind my business

Said that it was her life and stay the * * * * out of it

I tried and said just for him I'll keep a ready clip

 

I don't even know you and I want you dead

Don't know the facts but I saw the blood pour from her head

See I laid down beside her in the hospital bed

And about two hours later, doctors said she was dead

Had the nerve to show up at her mother's house the next day

To come and pay your respects and help the family pray

Even knelt down on one knee and let a tear drop

And before you had a chance to get up

You heard my gun * * * *

Prayin' to me now, I ain't God but I'll pretend

I ain't start your life but * * * * * I'mma bring it to an end

And I did, clear shots and no regrets, never

Cops comin' lock me under the jail

* * * * * whatever my * * * * * , * * * * it my sister

You could never figure out even if I let you live

What our love was all about

I considered her my blood and it don't come no thicker

[Nita]

Another great song that we all should lissten to...

 

Joe - I Understand

 

I understand [x 4]

Girl I understand, I understand,

See I understand,

 

You used to be the life of the party

But now you walk with head hung low

Cause he ride your nerves like a harley

And it's obvious that wasn't there before

Now you taken to wearing make up

To hide the marks that wasn't there before

In your heart you wanna break up

Can't find the nerve to walk out the door

 

Why don't you take those chains and break those chains

No love should cause you so much pain

Why don't you walk away before it gets too late

Leave him now

(see I understand)

Love should never hurt

 

You should have left the first time that he hit you

But instead you just stead and cried

Your friends and family tried to tell you

But you told them to mind their B.I

A career girl with a bright future

You had so much going on in your life

Since that man came along and abused you

Bour life has been everything but right

Two babies at home, can't pay the damn loan

Girl it's all wrong, you gotta move on

You say you really love him, I understand lady but tell me

 

Why don't you leave that man, go on your own

You're so fine, you are strong

Spread your wings, fly away

Girl don't cry another day

Don't give up, take a chance

Find your way, take a stand

You'll find that there's a better plan out there for you