redsquare Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I am in a long -distance relationship and the person that is on the other side of all these I know eventually wants to get married. However, I just dont know if I can spend all of this time apart from him, you know he keeps having to go on business trips and such and I just think maybe its better that we split up. Anyone had to deal with a marriage where you hardly see your mate. like once every 5 years >>???????? Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Once every 5 years? You can't be serious!! A marriage, or even a relationship would never work! How old are you?? Why is it once every 5 years? (I hope you're joking about the time period) Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I am in a long -distance relationship and the person that is on the other side of all these I know eventually wants to get married. However, I just dont know if I can spend all of this time apart from him, you know he keeps having to go on business trips and such and I just think maybe its better that we split up. Anyone had to deal with a marriage where you hardly see your mate. like once every 5 years >>???????? Business trips of 5 years long? Link to comment
greensleeves Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I think you may be getting ahead of yourself. Have the two of you talked about actually getting married, or just expressed an interest in being open to marriage in general some day. How much time do you actually get to spend together? If you're already thinking that it might be better to split up, I think that marriage isn't going to work with this person for you. Link to comment
redsquare Posted January 16, 2008 Author Share Posted January 16, 2008 I acknowledge that he remembered our anniversary, December 3, He wrote me a verse from the bible, and told me he missed me. On exactly the same day that he did 8 years ago, the first time we said goodbye. could be coincidence, but really, could it be , not sure at least he is really really good at remembering important things and keeping his promises. but I dont know, I cant really just put my life on hold for this guy, I have to keep going you know? I cant Link to comment
greensleeves Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 So, you still haven't told us...how much time do you guys actually spend together and how much are you apart? Link to comment
redsquare Posted January 17, 2008 Author Share Posted January 17, 2008 we talk to each other almost everyday or every other day, I probably should give him a key to my new place incase he comes into town while Im not around Link to comment
greensleeves Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 How often do you actually see eachother and spend time together? Link to comment
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