shadow2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 My finace straight up told me if he saw his bestfriend getting changed it would be burned into his memory. She is really pretty and looks alot like me ha... I don't know what to think. They hang out alone alot and she is always hanging on him. I never thought much until now... Link to comment
doyathink Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 Well, but ask him this, if he seen any females body, would they also be etched in his memory? Link to comment
Censored Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 Wow, what a strange thing to say!!!! DYT is onto something there. Oooooh, i would love to be a fly on the wall if he gave the response i think he would. Link to comment
pacodemil Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 Well, but ask him this, if he seen any females body, would they also be etched in his memory? I agree....This is probably a good place to start. However, if she is that into him and they have been friends for so long then there must be some reaon that he chose you over her? Link to comment
shadow2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Author Share Posted January 15, 2008 Ha yeah its a good question but I dont think the answer would be. He has done some sketchy things in his past. He took pictures of girls that he didn't know at a waterpark, they started looking pretty upset. I was kind of shocked is that normal? Link to comment
doyathink Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 Exactly, some things are better off left unspoken. It may just be a matter of an over active imagination to be used for his 'alone' time. Most ppl wouldn't come right out and say this to their partner, because they would either fear the consequences, or they are BRIGHT enough to know it hurts to hear it. All of us appreciate beauty, some more then others...and it sounds like he's the latter. Link to comment
doyathink Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 Ha yeah its a good question but I dont think the answer would be. He has done some sketchy things in his past. He took pictures of girls that he didn't know at a waterpark, they started looking pretty upset. I was kind of shocked is that normal? Maybe he's freak! No, that isn't normal. how old is this guy? Link to comment
d24 Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 Well, but ask him this, if he seen any females body, would they also be etched in his memory? As if you'd forget any man's body you've seen in the flesh?! It took me a very long time to understand what the OP meant... here's a translation for anyone who would find it useful: My fiance (straight up) told me that if he saw his best girl friend getting undressed it would be burned into his memory. She is really pretty and looks alot like me ha... I don't know what to think. They hang out alone alot and she is always hanging on him. I never thought much until now... I don't think that's an unreasonable thing to say - infact when my gf's friends went skinny dipping (we did not participate but we were there) I can remember each of their bodies, and it's something that is engraved into my memory. Not because I enjoyed it, just because the illusion of not knowing what's underneath is gone. Link to comment
pacodemil Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 Ha yeah its a good question but I dont think the answer would be. He has done some sketchy things in his past. He took pictures of girls that he didn't know at a waterpark, they started looking pretty upset. I was kind of shocked is that normal? It depends how old he is I guess. If he is a teenager or in his early twenties then it is somewhat normal I guess but if he is any older than that then yeah it is a little creepy. He should have matured a little more by this point. Link to comment
doyathink Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 As if you'd forget any man's body you've seen in the flesh?! It took me a very long time to understand what the OP meant... here's a translation for anyone who would find it useful: I don't think that's an unreasonable thing to say - infact when my gf's friends went skinny dipping (we did not participate but we were there) I can remember each of their bodies, and it's something that is engraved into my memory. Not because I enjoyed it, just because the illusion of not knowing what's underneath is gone. Well, some I want to forget, but why even go there? This isn't my post, and I'm not making it gender specific man, the op did. This is a WOMAN inquiring about her MAN. Link to comment
pacodemil Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 I have to agree I have seen a lot of people naked that I would give anything to erase from my memory. Naked happens and it is not always a pretty site. Link to comment
d24 Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 Well, some I want to forget, but why even go there? This isn't my post, and I'm not making it gender specific man, the op did. This is a WOMAN inquiring about her MAN. yeah i know -I've just put in my 2cents and being a man offering my opinion that it's a normal thing to say/expect; and for the record some of those naked friends I saw were not things I'd have ever wanted to see... *shudders* I don't think the OP needs to worry unless there's any indication that he likes his friend, or her friend likes him 'in that way'. Link to comment
shadow2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Author Share Posted January 16, 2008 he is 21... i am not sure age is so important i mean that is rough. i think if i told him i remembered men i seen naked he would be mad, very mad. Link to comment
shadow2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Author Share Posted January 16, 2008 well i decided to let it pass. if they mess around its cool if they let me know, so i can go on my way. don't get me wrong i love him it would hurt but i am not going to worry about what he is doing every moment of the day. my life would be boring and i would be miserable. i have to think about marrying him. i more rules than when i lived with my parents. no bars no clubs cant see my bestfriend cause he's a dude cant meet new guy friends nor talk to old ones he has to know where i am what i am doing. i think i may be doomed..... Link to comment
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