Help please - broken hearted and miserable

[vixen007]

ok here is the short version of the story

 

My partner and I have been together for 2 years and a bit and we brought a house together 6 months ago. All of a sudden he has turned around and said that the relationship isnt what he thought it would be and that he just thought it would be more fun living together. He told me he still loved me but he was confused.... so I gave him space, a couple of days. Then, when I went back to the house expecting him to take me back he comes out with I dont love you anymore, my heart isnt in it.

 

So I was deverstated and cried for the last two days.

 

Now he has called and text with questions like how are you, whats happening? Like we would usually every few hours when we were together. I was a bit cold and he commented on that.

 

I dont know what to do, I want him back sooooooooooooo badly. I have even thought of harming myself I am that miserable. What do you guys think? Do you think by him ringing like everything is normal is his way of missing me?

 

Do you have any tactics of trying to get someone back. I truly believe he still loves me but is majorily confused?????

 

 

[scotty77]

Well you certainly have every right to be acting cold ,anyone would.Did he give any reasons for his feelings?I am not sure I would want to be with someone who told me they didn't love me anymore.Perhaps you guys need a short break from each other to sort out your feelings.

[ghost69]

people change. people fall in and out of love all the time. please don't harm yourself. that will not fix anything and make you look nuts to him. i doubt he would want you back if you did that. so please don't.

 

he might miss you. i mean, you have history. but i think you need to move on for now. stop the contact and deal with your feelings.

 

you guys sounds young. maybe around 18-20?