star18 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 i always fall for the 'complicated, unsuitable' ones.... 1: M, 7 yrs older, no job, into drugs, total waste of space...so i realise now! 2: B, never actually went out, but nearly had a 'casual' friendship with benefits relationship. i wanted more, but stopped it all when i found out he still had his gf!! omg lucky escape!! 3: M, ex bf, several years ago, then became best mate. i was in love with him but he announced he was gay! and now... 4: R, cyber relationship, neither one of us sure where we stand with the other as we've yet to meet properly! he's another bf my mum wouldn't approve of he lives 100 miles away, and is a bit of a cheeky chap. 5: M, a married man! and also a colleague. nothing has happened between us except for casual flirting and my mum's approval lol...she knows he's married. he's 8 yrs older and i found out today that his wife is expecting their first baby even more reason to just leave it as casual flirting between colleague, or possibly be nothing but civilized to one another. and finally 6: J, he's a supervisor at work, hence why he is complicated! he is the same age and a real sweetheart. out of all of them, he's the one i find it hardest to talk to naturally! i don't know him as well as the others, so who knows he could turn out to be just as 'unsuitable'. i don't know, i just seem to always fall for the ones i can't have or are completely wrong for me! just reflecting back over my past and my current feelings is making me feel kinda sad that i haven't found one man that i would feel comfortable taking home...who isn't already taken! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 you are 18. a lot of scum are attracted to young girls. Link to comment
star18 Posted January 17, 2008 Author Share Posted January 17, 2008 ok so today at work, me and M were on till close, both rotard to do the same thing. he kept following me around. we we're jokin about and getting on with everything, so work didn't suffer at all. but i had to go into one of the cupboards to get an item, n he followed. nothing happened except further joking about and sexual inuendos. i so wanted to just 'pounce' on him lol. i know something would have happened if either one of us had made a move. but now i feel like a complete * * * * * because he's married with a child on the way. i know i need to stay clear. but i do like him, i can't change that. and now i'm worried cos we're both going to a mates party next week and he's offered to walk me home because my parents aren't very well and can't drive at night. i don't know what to do! my parents are only letting me go because he's offered to walk me home. Link to comment
star18 Posted January 18, 2008 Author Share Posted January 18, 2008 the other M! lol [5: M, a married man! and also a colleague. nothing has happened between us except for casual flirting and my mum's approval lol...she knows he's married. he's 8 yrs older and i found out today that his wife is expecting their first baby even more reason to just leave it as casual flirting between colleague, or possibly be nothing but civilized to one another.] Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 a baby is more reason? him being married should be reason enough. u sure you aren't reading into the guy as being flirty and not just nice? Link to comment
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