psu11 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 hey everyone, i was wondering if you have any issues regarding what you'll do/wont do during a one night stand verses someone you slept with more than once. for instance, a few of my guy friends wont go down on a girl they just met. others arent big on spending the night or cuddling. i personally have issues with getting serious with a guy after a one night thing. what about you??? Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 i wont call a girl after a one night stand---other than that, there are no limits Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Never had one - I'm not cut out for emotionless sex, I would get attached. No judgement, just for me they are NOT a good idea. I actually get more confident when I'm deeply in love with someone. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 i think it depends on the girl. if i feel comfortable and she seems to be a clean type of girl, who knows. but i'd still wear protection. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 i think it depends on the girl. if i feel comfortable and she seems to be a clean type of girl, who knows. but i'd still wear protection. not me---bareback Link to comment
rootcause43 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Depends on the girl and/or situation ... there are no specific do's or don'ts Link to comment
need2bme Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I couldn't do a one night stand either. If I was having sex with you, then I would want to be with you. Link to comment
EQD Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 i'm done with one nighters.. they are pretty pointless and lower your confidence and self worth.. but back in "the day" when i did have them it was condom every single time... fo sho. Link to comment
colors Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I had a one nighter once, I wouldn't go down on him...not for a one nighter, save that for the more special ones no I doubt I'd get serious with a one nighter, but it probably depends on the guy.no I didn't get serious with him,when i sobered up I didn't think so highly of him. Condom is a must. and well like Equestriandynamo said, it did lower my self worth. i felt rather cheap after. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I had a one nighter once, I wouldn't go down on him...not for a one nighter, save that for the more special ones no I didn't get serious with him,when i sobered up I didn't think so highly of him. Condom a must. and well like Equestriandynamo said, it did lower my self worth. i felt rather cheap after. at the time some women don't know it is a one nighter. half of my one nighters have done that. some ladies would rather do the oral so they can stay faithful to their boyfriends/husbands Link to comment
psu11 Posted January 14, 2008 Author Share Posted January 14, 2008 some ladies would rather do the oral so they can stay faithful to their boyfriends/husbands ...haha thats ridiculous! that sounds like cheating to me. if my bf gave oral to another girl he'd be dunzo. no questions asked. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 some ladies would rather do the oral so they can stay faithful to their boyfriends/husbands ...haha thats ridiculous! that sounds like cheating to me. if my bf gave oral to another girl he'd be dunzo. no questions asked. i don't make the news i just report it Link to comment
Batya33 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I draw the line at not having them because the thought of being intimate with a stranger turns me off. Link to comment
colors Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 at the time some women don't know it is a one nighter. half of my one nighters have done that. some ladies would rather do the oral so they can stay faithful to their boyfriends/husbands Well the way I figure it goes, is if I slept with them on the first night it's pretty certain all it is is a one night stand. (that's not quite how I see a meaningful relationship starting...just my opinion) Really women actually think that giving only oral,rather than sex, keeps them faithful?? wow who are they fooling? lol I think oral is more personal than sex. but I think both are cheating in my eyes (and certainly my husbands) Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Well the way I figure it goes, is if I slept with them on the first night it's pretty certain all it is is a one night stand. (that's not quite how I see a meaningful relationship starting...just my opinion) Really women actually think that giving only oral,rather than sex, keeps them faithful?? wow who are they fooling? lol I think oral is more personal than sex. but I think both are cheating in my eyes (and certainly my husbands) i swear on a stack of Hustlers. One woman would give it but not receive oral because she thought that was too far over the cheating line Link to comment
Superfreak Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I've never had a one night stand yet, but it's not something I'd rule out. I think I'd take alot of precautions such as not going down on her, obviously using condoms. I'd hate for one night of fun to ruin the rest of my life with an STD. Link to comment
colors Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 i swear on a stack of Hustlers. One woman would give it but not receive oral because she thought that was too far over the cheating line ha ha ha....I wonder whether her boyfriend thought the same?? Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 ha ha ha....I wonder whether her boyfriend thought the same?? husband.....he doesn't know Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I would do anything they let me do except share an STD with them if they have one. That will always be my line, no matter how long I know them. i had a one night stand who took home my Official NBA store Boston Celtics Sweatshirt worth $55. small price to pay i suppose Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 i had a one night stand who took home my Official NBA store Boston Celtics Sweatshirt worth $55. small price to pay i suppose a friend of mine had this happen on our vacation. met a girl out one of the nights and brought her back to our hotel room. she took his favorite shirt. he got to wear it once. lol. he's still scarred by it. i had to check my stuff that morning too to make sure she didn't take anything of mine. Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 man you gotta be careful about one night stands... last year a girl went down on me when i was in my friends dorm. i walked back to my place and went right to my comp... i had already gotten a facebook friend request. i reluctantly accepted as i never really wanted to see/talk to her again. then, she asked me out to lunch. some girls just don't know the deal. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 man you gotta be careful about one night stands... last year a girl went down on me when i was in my friends dorm. i walked back to my place and went right to my comp... i had already gotten a facebook friend request. i reluctantly accepted as i never really wanted to see/talk to her again. then, she asked me out to lunch. some girls just don't know the deal. that's not a one night stand. u got oral. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 man you gotta be careful about one night stands... last year a girl went down on me when i was in my friends dorm. i walked back to my place and went right to my comp... i had already gotten a facebook friend request. i reluctantly accepted as i never really wanted to see/talk to her again. then, she asked me out to lunch. some girls just don't know the deal. who was going to buy lunch? Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 you say tomato i say tomato (i guess that doesn't work that well online...) anyway that girl better have been buying because i don't pay for oral with mediocre girls haha Link to comment
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