garbage44 Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 ok, i met this girl about 3 months ago, at first we had great chemistry and we were both very talkative. She also asked me when do i work so she can drop by when im working, but she never did. Later on, she started to fade away and was talking to me alot less and seemed disinterested when i talked to her. After that, I still told her that we should hang out soon. She said "yeah, that would be nice". So I asked for her number and she took it and wrote it in my assignment notebook. After I asked for her number, She seemed slightly more interested when i was talking to her. So i called her up on a wed and talked to her for 5 minutes then finally said "hey, we should hang out on fri.". She responded by saying "Yeah, call me, and we'll meet up somewhere". So then I called her on friday and said " Hey, do you still want to do somthing today". She said "Yeah what do u wanna do". I said " You wanna hangout at the mall". Then she said " Yeah, I have to go tanning and run some errands and then I'll call you back". But she never did. After that, I thought she was just disinterested so I just backed off and left her alone. But then two weeks later she got extremely flirtatious with me. She even grabbed my biceps and wrote "I Love(Her name)" on my shoulder. Then the next dayshe took my assignment notebook and wrote "I love you". She even asked what I was doing winter break but I didnt ask her out then either. Is she interested or not....nd sorry that this is too long Link to comment
definitely_maybe Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 Oh gosh. I can see why you are confused. I wish I could help you out, and make sense of her actions, but I think I am as confused as you are. Kinda seems she is just flirty, and trying to have fun. Link to comment
confused just confused Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 Situations like this can get weird, and confusing. First off does she seem real flirtatious with other guys, if so i wouldnt look into it too much. But your best bet is to just call her up and talk to her. Dont drop hints or dance around what you want to say. Just say what you mean you usually cant go wrong with that. Link to comment
AngelEyez Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 Maybe she had another guy on the side? Yikes, she seems sort of wacko. Link to comment
beth116 Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 How old is she? are you guys in school or older? The behaviour she is exhibiting sounds typical of someone about 16, but if she's older than that, it's a bit immature. I does sound like she likes you- perhaps you should just ask her to be straight up with you. "so do you want to go see a movie and have dinner on Friday night?" making clear that it is a 'date' would be a good way to find out if she's romantically interested. You run the risk of rejection, but nothing ventured, nothing gained, right? Take care, Beth Link to comment
i miss her 2 Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 Yeah, be more clear about what you wanna do. Be more assertive. Just like Beth said. Link to comment
garbage44 Posted January 12, 2008 Author Share Posted January 12, 2008 How old is she? are you guys in school or older? The behaviour she is exhibiting sounds typical of someone about 16, but if she's older than that, it's a bit immature. Beth well, we are both 17 , but she just turned 17 a few months ago Link to comment
garbage44 Posted January 12, 2008 Author Share Posted January 12, 2008 Situations like this can get weird, and confusing. First off does she seem real flirtatious with other guys, if so i wouldnt look into it too much. well, it doesnt seem shes that flirty with other guys in the class, she only seems flirty with me... but i dont kno outside of class Link to comment
elbandido Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 Make plans with her again and if she doesn't show up, don't talk to her anymore. When she asks why you aren't speaking with her, tell her you don't have time for childish games. Link to comment
boo121 Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 After that, I thought she was just disinterested so I just backed off and left her alone. But then two weeks later she got extremely flirtatious with me. She even grabbed my biceps and wrote "I Love(Her name)" on my shoulder. Then the next dayshe took my assignment notebook and wrote "I love you". She even asked what I was doing winter break but I didnt ask her out then either. Is she interested or not....nd sorry that this is too long The good thing is you left her alone. Like i keep saying, If she seems uninterested or flakey, then leave her alone. And it's worked in your favor here. Yes, she is interested. And she is very flakey. In fact she could probablly win the Miss Flake America contest. I dout she knows what time of day it is either! Right... she flaked out on you before, so turn around is kinda fair play would you agree? Call her up and say "Hey! whats goin on? Would you like to get together this weekend?" then say "kool, well give me a call friday evening... and maybe we'll see about meeting up then" "gotta go, catch you later!" Now the ball is in your court, because now she is trying to get together with you. If she doesn't call on Friday who cares, go out and have fun anyway. If you miss her call, and she contacts you a day later and says "hey why didnt we meet up?" you can always reply with "well we never had definite plans... i said gimme a call Friday and we'd see about it then!" - And now she'll be pushing to get together with YOU. If you just HAVE to meet up with her, ask her out on the spot. say "what are you doing right now! lets go to starbucks, ill pick you up in 15" Link to comment
garbage44 Posted January 14, 2008 Author Share Posted January 14, 2008 im seriously beginning to think that this is a waste of time, because in class friday she said that shes gonna call me that night but she never did. Im not disapointed, its just annoying cause i think shes just messing with me. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 blow her off then. if she acts all flirty with you again, tell her to stop. u don't need this confusion. Link to comment
garbage44 Posted January 14, 2008 Author Share Posted January 14, 2008 yeah, i really don't need it and im not really tht interested nemore either. Cause today in class... she was telling me about how she went to a company party on friday and talked about how she slept over and these 3 guys were sleeping around her to "guard her". Then she told me that she said that she was really hot and took her shirt off and still slept with those 3 guys around her. I dont even care nemore...i didnt think she was like this...but shes not worth going after. Link to comment
KAT MOMMY Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I honestly think that she is flirting with you and that is that. She was interested and gave you the correct # but just hanging out at the mall is not the best thing to do for the first date-ya think---uuuuhhh that would have thrown me off too. Come up with something fun and cool that will allow you to spend exclusive time-see what happens Link to comment
boo121 Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 yeah, i really don't need it and im not really tht interested nemore either. Cause today in class... she was telling me about how she went to a company party on friday and talked about how she slept over and these 3 guys were sleeping around her to "guard her". Then she told me that she said that she was really hot and took her shirt off and still slept with those 3 guys around her. I dont even care nemore...i didnt think she was like this...but shes not worth going after. She's messin with you, see how you respond. It's good that you are disqualifying her because she seems like a bit of a fruitcake. Keep lookin Link to comment
garbage44 Posted January 20, 2008 Author Share Posted January 20, 2008 honestly, i think she hates me now because she suddenly started ignoring me but not completely. It was sudden also, she didn't even look towards me in class on Monday. She doesn't even notcie me in the hallways or nething...its like she completely shut me off suddenly.... i dont get it...i dont want her to hate me...but i dont wanna pursue a relationship nemore...does she hate me now Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 oh well huh. let her ignore. 'tis what you want. she is probably hatin to get your attention again. she wants you to wonder. F it. Link to comment
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