lynxwizard Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 Just got back from church tonight, I saw the ex walk in with her guy tonight, she left me to go back to him, we got on well but she never got over him, she left him because he did not treat her well, she says he has changed now, anyhow she did not see me when she walked in, but at the end of the service I saw them leaving and I walked up behind them and I said hi to her, (he does not know me) she had this look of panic on her face, before she could say anything I said to her I have not seen you for so long, then I said 'You must be Warren', and I shook his hand, then I said, 'I work with her and awhile ago I saw her in the hall at work and she looked so happy, I asked her why and she told me she got back together with her Old boyfriend and that he was a wounderful man', Warren smiled when I said that, ( I made up the part about running into her in the hall tho). Then I said to Warren 'You are a Lucky Guy', then I walked away. It was hard seeing her walk away with him, and It was hard to say what I did, part of me ment it because I want her to be happy, and maybe I wanted to score a few points with her, I dont they will work out in the end. They both never said a word to me, anyhow what do you think she thought about what I did ? Link to comment
Coach Jimmy Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 I'm thinking you scored some points with her. She'll probably go back tonight and think of it and give you some second thoughts. And if things go down hill with the other guy, what you did tonight might help your case in getting back together with her. Link to comment
lightn Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 Job well done. It took guts, but I like it. It gave me and idea if and when I see my ex with another guy, if and might the shock out of her and do the same thing stating lucky guy , we use to work together etc. That is great. As the other poster said, it will make her think more on what you said. Keep us posted. Link to comment
Jeffrey2095 Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 Hi lynxwizard, I don't know, it might have been a bit of a shock or surprise to have you introduce yourself suddenly, personally I might have let her see me, but see if she waves or looks or approaches me. It sounds as though you are just waiting for them to break up, is it worth maybe waiting forever if they don't break up? In the end though, I don't think it will be a factor in whether they stay together. See what next week is like at church, but I would get busy finding another lady. Jeff Link to comment
lynxwizard Posted January 7, 2008 Author Share Posted January 7, 2008 Hi lynxwizard, I don't know, it might have been a bit of a shock or surprise to have you introduce yourself suddenly, personally I might have let her see me, but see if she waves or looks or approaches me. It sounds as though you are just waiting for them to break up, is it worth maybe waiting forever if they don't break up? In the end though, I don't think it will be a factor in whether they stay together. See what next week is like at church, but I would get busy finding another lady. Jeff I wont wait forever, and I will meet others, if it happens, it happens, but I think they will fail in the end, the church is very big, and she hardley ever goes there, so I dont think I will see them again anytime soon Link to comment
lynxwizard Posted January 7, 2008 Author Share Posted January 7, 2008 Job well done. It took guts, but I like it. It gave me and idea if and when I see my ex with another guy, if and might the shock out of her and do the same thing stating lucky guy , we use to work together etc. That is great. As the other poster said, it will make her think more on what you said. Keep us posted. I will keep you posted, I told a friend of mine who knows her and he thinks she only can think postive about what I did and I will hear from her. I just hope Warren does not give her the 3rd degree about it Link to comment
scotty77 Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 Your best bet is to lay low though,for now.She may have viewed your actions as an obvious attempt to try and win her favor.Try and convince her that you have no feelings for her by dating other women and possibly you guys may hook up again in the future. Link to comment
carrickfergus Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 Opinion: I think that was quite smooth, a little needy though. Link to comment
AnxiousGirl Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 I think you acted calm, cool, and collected. If I ran into my ex with his new gf it would probably turn into World War III. Job well done! However, next time let her come up to you and initiate small talk. Link to comment
lynxwizard Posted January 7, 2008 Author Share Posted January 7, 2008 Any other Women have any thoughts on this ? Link to comment
lynxwizard Posted January 8, 2008 Author Share Posted January 8, 2008 Your best bet is to lay low though,for now.She may have viewed your actions as an obvious attempt to try and win her favor.Try and convince her that you have no feelings for her by dating other women and possibly you guys may hook up again in the future. How do I lay low and still convince her I have no feelings for her ? Link to comment
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