blink8428 Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 well i met this girl over thanksgiving break and i go to a school like 2 hours from where she lives. i don't drive yet and i will maybe see her once in like 3 months. i don't want to go through with this, and i want to know how to break up with her. i'm kinda embarrassed but i am really nervous, i am doing it over the phone, as my only other option is email, which is something i did in 7th and 8th grade. so what should i say, i have a few ideas, and we are together but not dating, i've told her before that i didn't want to go out yet as i wasn't sure if this was a good thing, because of our distance. but i really did like her and she liked me, but i don't want to hurt her, but i don't also want to continue in the relationship. all advice gladly accepted. thank you in advance Alex Link to comment
blink8428 Posted January 5, 2008 Author Share Posted January 5, 2008 please i need advice Link to comment
blink8428 Posted January 5, 2008 Author Share Posted January 5, 2008 well since no one is replying i will just talk. every day i say i'm going to call her and end this, but i chicken out, or find excused not to do it. like i will do it tonight, but i always say no i'll do it later. i really need your help, please, anyone, i need help. i don't want to go to sleep tonight thinking about how i should have done this. please.... Link to comment
meaningsearcher Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 Hmm, okay. Your just going to have to bite the bullet and be honest. I don't think there is a magic phrase or turn of words that is going to make it any easier. Just tell her how your feeling and that's the best you can do... Good luck.. Being the dumper is never easy and there is always a bunch of guilt attached to hurting another. Sorry Link to comment
boo121 Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 I think ur concerned about her reaction, if you break up with her. You will be surprised how understandable people can be if ur honest and say it how it is. call her up, tell her how ur feeling and the situation ur in. once ur over it u'll be glad you did. Link to comment
rs.dallaire Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 please i need advice I think you should read your initial post again. I just read it like 5 times and still can't make sense of it. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 'hey i don't think it's going to work out between us.' - do it over the phone. don't try and sugarcoat it with a sorry either. Link to comment
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