ThaWarden Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 This girl I am interested in and I have never been on a "date" We have one planned for saturday, dinner and movie type thing. Today I texted her and told her that I would be at one of the local joints having wings and some drinks tonight between 8:30 and 9. I said hope to see you there, she said we will see. Now, regardless of what she decides to do, was this a good idea to just leave it end at that? Thanks
Atticus90 Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Maybe you should of been more certain that she was going. I'd hate to get all dressed up and smelling good and turns out she's a noshow.
ThaWarden Posted January 4, 2008 Author Posted January 4, 2008 I will not be alone when I get there, there some friends that will be there as well. I just threw it out there that she was welcome to join.
ThaWarden Posted January 4, 2008 Author Posted January 4, 2008 to just have a good ol time, have some drinks and some food.
Atticus90 Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Take a raincoat with ya or you'll end up like me.
curbie Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 This girl I am interested in and I have never been on a "date" We have one planned for saturday, dinner and movie type thing. Today I texted her and told her that I would be at one of the local joints having wings and some drinks tonight between 8:30 and 9. I said hope to see you there, she said we will see. Now, regardless of what she decides to do, was this a good idea to just leave it end at that? Thanks I doubt she shows if you told her you're going out for drinks. This could be a turn off for her. Maybe she doesn't like alcohol...not saying you're an alcoholic....but maybe it's just not her cup of tea? Besides...if you're there w/ friends of yours and she comes alone...don't you think that would make her feel like the 5th wheel? Why didn't you just be a real man and ask her on a dinner date with just you and her? Put yourself in her shoes...would you like to go somewhere to hang out with the girl and her friends if you didn't know her friends?
curbie Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 Take a raincoat with ya or you'll end up like me. OMG....you're the prime example of some guys. Taking a condom with you just b/c you're out with your buddies having a "few" drinks, hoping to have a lay with the girl and then you end up getting her pregnant? Wow.
ThaWarden Posted January 4, 2008 Author Posted January 4, 2008 atticus - gotcha curbie - didn't really think of it that way, I do understand what you're saying. We have a dinner and movie planned for saturday, tonight was just something I threw out there if she wanted to join, my intentions were not to be rude or anything.
Atticus90 Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 OMG....you're the prime example of some guys. Taking a condom with you just b/c you're out with your buddies having a "few" drinks, hoping to have a lay with the girl and then you end up getting her pregnant? Wow. Just laying out a couple jokes for the guy. No use in getting this guy stressed before this possible hangout
Atticus90 Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 I also agree with curbie. Be a big man and say "hey, i'd like to take you out for a few drinks".. girls like a confident guy.
sti_2004 Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 hmmm don't screw things up before the date though...
Yates33 Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 This girl I am interested in and I have never been on a "date" We have one planned for saturday, dinner and movie type thing. Today I texted her and told her that I would be at one of the local joints having wings and some drinks tonight between 8:30 and 9. I said hope to see you there, she said we will see. Now, regardless of what she decides to do, was this a good idea to just leave it end at that? Thanks You already have a date set up with her, that's what matters. IMO, you should not have texted her saying that. You don't know her and why would you want to hang out with her in a group of YOUR FRIENDS when you haven't even been on a first date? Don't sweat it; just call her Friday night to confirm for saturday.
ghost69 Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 i've invited women out with friends before going on a date with them. i'd like to see how they interact in my usual group setting before pursuing her. this happens sometimes. nothing wrong with it. i usually tell them to bring a friend though.
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