curbie Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 Ok...so I should know better but ... well...my GF & I had sex w/o protection but she's on the pill. I didn't cum inside her but I'm aware of the precum stuff as well. BTW....if anyone has used any adult sex toys...anyone ever heard of the "diving dolphin"? We bought it off of link removed and I'm not exactly sure how it's supposed to sit on my penis and stimulate her clit. I think I have an idea...but just wondered. One more question for the ladies - She seems to have trouble getting off during sex. (having an orgasm) Is this normal for a girl to not be able to get off or what? Because I'm thinking and I'm going to the doctor for a couple of things and one of them is I am going to ask to see what they would say about a penis pump or something - I'd like to be a bit bigger...she says she can't feel me sometimes and it's very discouraging...but she's not a * * * * * either...so guys...don't say "Oh .. she's too loose." She's only had 2 partners...INCLUDING me. So she's very tight. Evidentially it's me but it's not like I am 2 inches either...I'd guess I am more like 3-4 inches with a boner. ha ha! How embarrassing! Link to comment
Atticus90 Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 If she's tight, then you're obviously big enough for her lol. As for the prego thing. She's probably not pregnant if you didn't finsish inside her. Plus, she has birth control. Link to comment
curbie Posted January 4, 2008 Author Share Posted January 4, 2008 If she's tight, then you're obviously big enough for her lol. As for the prego thing. She's probably not pregnant if you didn't finsish inside her. Plus, she has birth control. Yeah....I understand. Thanks for the opinion but just for future notice...I dont want anymore replies saying "Yeah...you're too small man...you're penis is smaller than a toothpick." or something like that...don't need any haters but just keep it real...not pick at. Link to comment
ResonanceTheory Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 ah, okay. I can tell you that the chances of getting pregnant while using any modern medicinal contraceptive is very, very small. Although it is possible, it is very unlikely. Also, the fact that you pulled out of her lessens the chances immensely. As for precum, there are current studies that show that there is no actual semen in precum. However, if you have recently ejaculated and have not showered and/or urinated before having sex with your s/o, there is a chance that semen will be in your precum from your previous ejaculation. (does that make sense? lol ) As for the penis size question, the worst thing you can do for your s/o is be unconfident or insecure. She loves you for you, not your penis. And as for the orgasming thing, I had that problem recently. It all comes down to stress. Believe it or not, not only men have performance anxiety in the bedroom! The sex can be great, but I find that if I focus too much on what's happening around me and I loose touch with the sensations. Just let her relax. If she tries to focus more on the feeling of sex and less about the stress of performance, it may be easier for her to cum. Link to comment
curbie Posted January 4, 2008 Author Share Posted January 4, 2008 Thanks for your input!! Link to comment
LostInMyThoughts Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 yeah penis size and hitting the o, are usually unrelated. Has she gotten herself off before? Does she know what gets her off? Has she gotten off with you before? Link to comment
curbie Posted January 4, 2008 Author Share Posted January 4, 2008 yeah penis size and hitting the o, are usually unrelated. Has she gotten herself off before? Does she know what gets her off? Has she gotten off with you before? She has gotten herself off before, yes. Does she know what gets her off - well...i would hope so! ha! Has she gotten off with me before - no...not yet. sad but true. Link to comment
LostInMyThoughts Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 She has gotten herself off before, yes. Does she know what gets her off - well...i would hope so! ha! Has she gotten off with me before - no...not yet. sad but true.+ Well it's not sad; it's pretty common, and it's important that she knows what gets her off. Reaching orgasms for a woman can much different than it is for guys. For some women, intercourse is not enough to reach climax; oral or hand stimulation is needed. It also takes a certain level of comfort before she'll hit the O with you. As long as you're paying attention to the right spots, then the rest of the work is up to her. Link to comment
southerngirl Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 Some woman can not get off through sex alone, they must use other ways to get off. If you are comfortable enough that you are having sex, ask her to tell you what gets her off. To 'show' you. She could also try with her on top, putting pressure on that area. Sometimes if the woman is in more control of the situation she can get off easier. This does not mean that you are bad at what you are doing or that she doesnt like it. She could like it very much, and still not have an 'O'. Link to comment
Aleadragonhawk Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 Most women cannot have an orgasm solely from vaginal stimulation - it often takes clitoral stimulation as well. As for the sex toy, it seems to be a normal penis ring with vibrating bullets. It can be worn either over the scrotum and the penis or just over the penis. If you're going to be wearing it over both, be sure to put your scrotum through the ring first. It should be snug but not too tight, and if you're a beginner at using penis rings, then be sure not to use it for too long - five minutes at first is advised, then you can move up towards twenty minutes. Make sure to put the ring on while flacid, as well. Link to comment
TheSmilingTurnip Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 How long have you two been together? That could be a big reason why she hasn't gotten off with you yet. For me, it's about intimacy. It was months before I was emotionally intimate and felt safe enough with my bf to have an orgasm. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 she is probably in tune with herself to get off even if you were small. doesn't matter. she's doing you. can't be that small. lol never heard of a dolphin thing. so, no comment on that unless i come accross one in my sexual travels. and you should be okay in the pregnancy department. but get those condoms back on. Link to comment
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