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[lil_baby_girl]

im not sure if this is the right place for this but i need some adives,

 

how many times a week should a 17 year old girl leave the house? to be emotionly heathy, i have been in the house for almost a mounth not leaveing, i whent up to my aunts house for an hr but other then that i have been in stuck in this house, i know being in the house ALL the time is not heathy, so any idea on how many times i should be able to leave the house a week?

i cant take always being home, i have started doing stuff that im not proud of again.

[red_fox]

Are you not allowed to leave your house? I'm thinking it would be healthy to go outside everyday, even if it was just for 10 mins to get some fresh air. I don't think you should lock yourself up inside, you can go crazy from lack of human-to-human contact.

[lil_baby_girl]

Are you not allowed to leave your house?

no im not really allowed to leave, unless im going to school and as of right now i have been kick out of school, and ok thanks.

[girl friend]

U ok man?

 

What stuff are you not proud off? Whats been going on?

 

I thought you were going to move out when you turned 16, you may need to leave to get space.

 

What solutions can you think of?

 

girl friend

[lil_baby_girl]

U ok man?

for the most parts i guess so,

What stuff are you not proud off?Whats been going on?

i have starting to cut and drink,(i only cut if i have been drinking) plus im addicted to the computer, i go crazy if i dont get on the computer.

I thought you were going to move out when you turned 16,

With all my disablitlys they said i could not get emasapated because theres no way i can live on my own,

What solutions can you think of?

I need out of my house, i cant handle always being locked up all the time, and it makes it worse when my lil brother trys to kill me, (thats why i started drinking) but i dont drink more then onse every 2 weeks if that,

[dragon111]

You should definitely go out every day, every morning if possible, a routine, even if its just a walk to the shops.

 

I'm not familiar with your other posts but it sounds like your having a rough time, and being kicked out of school probably makes you feel like you have little direction in life right now, i think you should start to think about what you want to get out of life, for yourself, i think that's a good place to start. You're aware of your emotional health and one way to centre yourself is to have an aim or ambition.

 

The drinking and cutting isn't good, and it sounds like your self-confidence and belief in your own abilities is continually being broken down. The most important piece of advice i can give on that is to have confidence in yourself and then lots of things (like the way people treat you) should start to correct themselves.

[lil_baby_girl]

is to have confidence in yourself

i use to have a lot of confiidence but ones i stop liveing it was gone, onse i can start geting more freedom ill stop drinking but evertime i try to stop drinking and im still in the place to begen with it dont help.

[girl friend]

for the most parts i guess so, i have starting to cut and drink,(i only cut if i have been drinking) plus im addicted to the computer, i go crazy if i dont get on the computer. With all my disablitlys they said i could not get emasapated because theres no way i can live on my own, I need out of my house, i cant handle always being locked up all the time, and it makes it worse when my lil brother trys to kill me, (thats why i started drinking) but i dont drink more then onse every 2 weeks if that,

 

I thought ur disability was reading and writing stuff???

Surely you can move out.

[lil_baby_girl]

disability was reading and writing stuff?

I also have bi Polar and i cant deal with money i cant read and i have a hard time spelling, they think i cant handle being on my own because i have a hard time reading and writing and i have a hard time being alone because im use to being around a lot of ppl, i dont understand them but ya, and btw i have stop drinking my parents found out and i got in more trouble then i had to begen with,