harveywallbanger Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 sorry to ask this but i was just wondering how much would your * * * * * * * hurt after anal sex for the first time even if your partner used lube? also would it depend if the bottom was male or female? (also obviously your partner's tool would be a factor but how much would it hurt?) would it be similar to swamp ass (like sweaty chaffing pain?) Link to comment
doyathink Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 Whoa. What is swamp ass? sounds disgusting. Link to comment
Genuine_Ghost Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 I'm curious as to what that is too...... Link to comment
Entomon Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 It would hurt like hell. And if you're anal virgin, your butt hole would stretch so large that you'd be leaking quite often so wear adult diapers if you have to be out of your home. Link to comment
EQD Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 Etomon might be exaggerating a little... but i have never had that expirience. My first time was different, keeping in mind the guy in question was endowed.. if you don't go slow and make sure you are relaxed for the next few centimeters and inches it will hurt alot. Your anus almost has a mind of its own, put your fingertip on it and you will see what i mean, it tenses and tightens without you meaning it to. So keep in mind that is what its going to be doing when a penis is going in. As long as you go slooooow it will be fine. And afterwards it just feels a little weird, like a ball of tissue is between your cheeks where your anus is. But i never had any problems with "leaking" out stuff.. even directly after. But i use condoms each time so my partner doesnt leave anything up there that is going to come down later without my consent. lol Also keep in mind that if you havent done anal for a day or so, you will probably have to start all over and be slow as possible. The anus tends to tighten up very quickly when not "in use." Have fun, anal sex rocks. Link to comment
lana111 Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 it depends of the size of your partner (bigger hurts more for sure) and their gentleness (them taking time and starting off easy makes quite a difference). Link to comment
lana111 Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 oh yea, and its nothing like swamp ass Link to comment
free2Bme Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 I had anal with my BF once, i'd had a few drinks, so was very relaxed, he was well lubed, and the next day I felt no different at all! Link to comment
Lora828 Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 I don't know where entomon got the info from, but it's not like that at all. For me, sometimes it hurts and sometimes it doesn't... and it never really hurts afterword, just during. I have no idea why some days are different than others. But yeah, going in slow is the key. When it doesn't hurt, it's really great, it's a completely different experience from regular sex... I definitely say try it! Link to comment
doyathink Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 It would hurt like hell. And if you're anal virgin, your butt hole would stretch so large that you'd be leaking quite often so wear adult diapers if you have to be out of your home. HA HA HA! What the hell E! :splat: sounds fascinating! I'm soooo ready to do this now! Watch out boys! lol Link to comment
jettison Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 EDynamo has a pretty good take. It really depends on both partners here. You have to be VERY patient. Anal should really only be tried by two people who are already very familiar and comfortable with each other. It might be frustrating as well if you can seem to get it to work right away. I had a GF once, and we were having problems. She just wasn't able to get off very well the traditional way. She wanted to try anal. It was a good guess on her part. I've never been with a wetter partner. Also, you can buy an anal toy at the porn store, and it works great for working up to something more. Lube, patience, toys, a sense of adventure. That's about all you need. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 some girls love it, some don't. some bleed, some don't. some girls i have been with were okay with it hurting later. they liked it that much. Link to comment
surfNski Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 All women are different, but one thing I can guarantee you is that if you are a anal virgin its going to hurt. Also keep in mind that some women actually get more stimulated by anal sex than vaginal sex. So its worth a try. Remember use a condom, go slow and use lube... Link to comment
Entomon Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 Can't anyone see the sarcasm in what I said? LoL DYT, pretty much what I described above is swamp ass. Link to comment
Wellsy Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 Everyone on here is right, size matters and speed is a huge issues. you barley move at first and then once in just stop and let her body relax and get used to you. its getting passed the tip is the hard part. one thing not mentioned that I like to do is getting her tail ready before jumping right in. use your finger first or a small toy as your going down on her. and if its her first time and she enjoys something smaller, she wont be so nervous when sex comes into play. Link to comment
doyathink Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 Can't anyone see the sarcasm in what I said? LoL DYT, pretty much what I described above is swamp ass. OH. Lovely. I think I'll pass. Link to comment
EQD Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 is swamp ass the medical term? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 i didn't read anything like that here. swamp ass is when you have been out in the sun all day and ur bum is sweating and it's like humid too. not so sure about when it's leaking. sick. Link to comment
kimmie11479 Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 I’m not entirely sure about swap A** but it was painful for me. Actually the first time wasn’t as painful as the second (I found that kin of odd)….anyone have thoughts on that? Link to comment
doyathink Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 is swamp ass the medical term? LMAO! Yeah, the doctor comes in and says....dude, man you have swamp ass! Gonna have to cork ya. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 clarification. swamp ass pretty much = sweaty butt crack. has nothing to do with anal really. Link to comment
Delusional Kisses Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 Comfort is key.. comfort with each other and eath others' bodies. If you are really nervous about it, buy a toy and do some play all alone to just see what you like and don't like and then you can be an instructor when actual sex comes into play. Link to comment
Entomon Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 swamp = dirty = anal = ass Swamp ass. Link to comment
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