freshjonng Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 Hi, I was at my girlfriends house and I've never had sex before. but we got really close but the thing is my penis could not get an erection. Is it cause i'm scared, nervous? I'm really hoping its not Erectile Dysfunction...i doubt it is though =D. What should I do? its pretty embarresing... Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 Have you ever had problems getting an erection? and how old are you? It was more than likely nerves getting in the way. Dont worry it happens more often than not especially the first time. Link to comment
Snoopy24 Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 You were most likely nervous. Do you have problem when you are by yourself? Link to comment
Kiwi_Sweet Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 HI..Welcome to ENA... This is going to be a very straightforward question..lol...But do you masturbate at all? And if so, are you able to gain an erection? Link to comment
StephenP Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 You're a male virgin; with the exception of a few, it goes horribly wrong for most guys if they haven't had a lot of previous sexual experience with women. Guys, for the most part, can have sex without emotion, but the emotions involved with losing your virginity cannot be suppressed. Excitement, anticipation, and downright horror. "What if I'm not good at it? What if she laughs at me? Should I talk? Where should I put my hands? Is it going to hurt her? Will it hurt me?" If you think Mr. Winky isn't connected to your emotions, you are sadly mistaken. In so many ways, your subconscious fears made your penis run and hide. Poor thing was terrified of how the situation could've played out. Everyone has a “first time,” and it’s never as beautiful or as sexy as teen romance movies make it out to be. If you are under 30 and have no history of erectile problems in comfortable situations (i.e. masturbating in private), you have nothing to worry about. The most important thing for you to remember is to be comfortable with yourself, and it gets easier (and "harder") the second, third, and fourth time. Link to comment
freshjonng Posted January 2, 2008 Author Share Posted January 2, 2008 You were most likely nervous. Do you have problem when you are by yourself? no... i don't i feel fine... Link to comment
freshjonng Posted January 2, 2008 Author Share Posted January 2, 2008 HI..Welcome to ENA... This is going to be a very straightforward question..lol...But do you masturbate at all? And if so, are you able to gain an erection? Yes and yes...that was quite straight forward...I am 16 after all this is natural stuff? Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 You're only 16 and this was your first time.. PERFECTLY NORMAL!! no worries my friend, infact it may take a few tries before you're fully successful but that time will come Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 has your weiner ever had an audience? maybe you have stage fright. Link to comment
ryan123 Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 I have had friends that have had that happen to them their first time. I myself have never experienced it. I didn't care about the girl my first time so I guess I didnt have any "performance pressure." Had it been someone I cared about I suppose I would have been nervous. Link to comment
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