dragon111 Posted January 1, 2008 Share Posted January 1, 2008 I don't want to live in this hell hole of a world anymore, i initially had a good night, me and my friend walked home after new years eve, we left eachother to go our separate ways, i had a phone call minutes after leaving him, he got beaten the * * * * out of him, he's never done anything to anyone, he's a shy introvert boy, what is the point in this world, i should have walked him home, what a crap world, what hope is there for us, i don't see much hope, if i could press a button to kill all bad people i would press it right now, i shouldn't have let him walk home, how can i forgive myself, i hate this world, this person called him a pervert as he beat him up, he thought he had been looking at his wife, i am crying, i told him to report it to the police, gave him my advice and sympathy, but what's the point, what's the point when people like him get beaten up by grown men, somebody has to make a stand, i can't look at the world in the same way anymore, i feel like killing people, i wish people were good Link to comment
wiser Posted January 1, 2008 Share Posted January 1, 2008 Not the best way to welcome in the New Year, that's for sure. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 1, 2008 Share Posted January 1, 2008 Is he okay...maybe he should get himself checked out at the hospital. This is not your fault...he was just unlucky...even if you would have walked him home, you would end up walking home alone....you are just as much a target for bullies as he is...he was just at the wrong place wrong time. Check in on him periodically and make sure he is okay. Link to comment
dragon111 Posted January 1, 2008 Author Share Posted January 1, 2008 No, it's not good, i've got a feeling this years going to be different, i've got a feeling there are going to be some changes, i'm going to have to be more careful, i've never had a problem with protecting myself, well, not since i've learnt that people are crazy, i always carry a pen, i can't let something like this happen again, i don't understand, why arent people good? sounds like a stupid question, but why? Link to comment
dragon111 Posted January 1, 2008 Author Share Posted January 1, 2008 he says he is okay, but he may be trying to be big, he phoned me because he was afraid, i cant stop crying, i've known him forever, he recently lost his mother to cancer, its his first new years without her, this isn't good, i told him to talk to his father Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 1, 2008 Share Posted January 1, 2008 This was bad luck...that doesn't mean the whole year will be bad..you are just very shaken up right now so things look bleak. It will take a while for you to shake this bad feeling but over time you will get your equilibrium back. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 1, 2008 Share Posted January 1, 2008 Sounds like he is having a run of bad luck. Sometimes life goes like that...a series of bad things happen in succession and then everything turns around and is wonderful again. Hopefully he will contact his father. He has to make sure there are no internal injuries..maybe his father will take him to the hospital to get checked out. Link to comment
dragon111 Posted January 1, 2008 Author Share Posted January 1, 2008 I really do hope so, because i cant see much hope, i thought going out with my friends would be good, but its hard to see much good anymore, and i'm sane minded, i can already feel myself falling back into that millitaristic mode, where feelings don't have to exist and i just work, i don't want to be a robot again Link to comment
dragon111 Posted January 1, 2008 Author Share Posted January 1, 2008 Yes i think he is having a run of bad luck, i think his father has been drinking tonight but hopefully my friend wont be too shy to wake him to tell him, because he gets like that Link to comment
dragon111 Posted January 1, 2008 Author Share Posted January 1, 2008 I read a book that once told me that people never intend to do bad things, that we should always look at what people intend to do rather than what they did, so that an abusive alcoholic father may not be forgiven for his sins but that his intentions to provide for his family were real, it was the idea of a "speaker for the dead", as in the book of Orson Scott Card, does anybody know of this idea, how real is this? can we try to justify through this? can we try to find comfort through this kind of thing? Link to comment
Elizabeth07 Posted January 1, 2008 Share Posted January 1, 2008 I'm sorry that jerk beat up your friend. I don't understand that kind of behavior. The person that ganged up on your friend is insecure and jealous.. I'm sorry that your friend was the victim of his rage... it is not fair and no one deserves that! I will pray for your friend and for you. He has had a hard year, and I believe you can make a difference by being there for him. Focus on the positive things and laugh alot together. Laughter and friends are good medicine for the pain and suffering we sometimes have to go through. Happy New year! All the best to you and your friend! Link to comment
dragon111 Posted January 1, 2008 Author Share Posted January 1, 2008 Thanks Elizabeth, i will make that my new years resolution, to be there for him more, i will make sure i always have the time for friends, i think that's more important than anything Link to comment
dragon111 Posted January 1, 2008 Author Share Posted January 1, 2008 I'll try to sleep now Link to comment
dragon111 Posted January 1, 2008 Author Share Posted January 1, 2008 I have talked to him and although he refuses to wake his father he has talked to his brother, i advised him to make a report to the police straight away because i know how the system works and understand that although he says he is okay he may not realise he is injured immediately, i'm not going to convince him further to inform his father because i'm not sure whether that would be better or worse, i'll talk to him again tomorrow. Link to comment
MaNg0s Posted January 1, 2008 Share Posted January 1, 2008 Yeah this world sucks I live in London. So there are groups of teenagers just starting fights for no reason I got in a fight because some guy bumped in to me and grabbed my neck. This world is a crazy place but there are good people out there. Just make sure he keeps going out after this whole incident because if he doesn't he will start developing a social phobia as what happened to him was probably very traumatic. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 1, 2008 Share Posted January 1, 2008 Your friend should absolutely file a police report, this way it is on record. The other guy is a complete nutcase and who knows, maybe he will file some bogus report against your friend...make sure your friend files in order to cover his butt. Link to comment
EmotionalCreature Posted January 1, 2008 Share Posted January 1, 2008 People looking for troubles picks easy target, add alcohol and almost any targets look easy. It wasn't your fault, next time he goes out at these festive times he should make sure he has some sort of arrangement for transport. If that's not possible then get a group of friends to go together, and NEVER trust drunk strangers. Anyway, not everything is bad, don't let a few bad fishes spoil your view of the world in general. Link to comment
EmotionalCreature Posted January 1, 2008 Share Posted January 1, 2008 Agree with Mangos, my friend's friend got beaten up and now has social outing phobia, poor dude. Link to comment
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