pigeon.egg Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 I used to dream that he would call. And yet he never did. Today he has called 9 times. And I am not answering his calls. My ex needs money and I know him better than to think its anything more than that. Times have changed. I no longer need his attention so badly that I would stoop to his level. He can find the money at some other charity organisation... Link to comment
pigeon.egg Posted December 30, 2007 Author Share Posted December 30, 2007 Thanks onelastgo and Dako. It took a heck of a lot to get to this point. I never thought I would. Everyone said it would get easier but I couldn't see how - unless he returned to me. He didn't. But... fast forward through tears, hopelessness and some really tough times, and here I am. And I feel better than I ever have. And the only thing he has contributed to this new me? His absense from my life. And he can keep it that way... Link to comment
southerngirl Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 Keep up the great work. Let him call someone else! Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 Good for you...you deserve a romantic partner, not a dependent. Link to comment
BeStrongBeHappy Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 Excellent! build your own life and KEEP forgetting about him... someone who only calls you when they need money is a leech and not worth having. Link to comment
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