quick help...seeing ex tonight!

[cpo3619]

So I broke it off with my ex because i found out she cheated on me and kissed another guy...she said it was because of the stress and commitment of moving in together(we had been living together for a few months) and we are still pretty young.......we decided to talk about it a week and a half later(being today).....I decided i was ready to forgive her and maybe try it again( I moved out) and see how it goes living apart........shes calling me after work in a couple hours and Im going to ask her to meet somewhere to talk(I dont wanna talk on the phone!!) I just am going to say i want to discuss everything and see where we should go from here......any other suggestions??? Inside I still like her and I would be willing to give her another chance....I dont know if she wants to get back together cause shes afraid to "hurt me again" and she said "you deserve better".....I guess just guilt or something from her cheating.......... I will follow up on this later after the talk!!!!!!

[thouse]

I would let her do all the talking and just really listen to what she has to say. I would be leery to just get back with someone who has cheated.

[Aleadragonhawk]

Avoid making any commitments until you've had time to think them over.

[cpo3619]

alright she called me after work and I just let her do most of the talking...she apoligzed again....... she said she cannot date me or anyone right now....she said she needs to work out her commitment issues....she said she still has feelings for me and could see us dating again......then she said she still wants to remain friends or still hang out.....i'm suspose to call her on new years to go party with some of our friends(we have a lot of the same friends)......this will be the first time seeing her in a couple weeks.........my plan is that if nothing happens that night hanging out with her(she doesen't change her mind...ect) Im going to go into no contact....im not going to torture myself by seeing her often and not being able to date or anything....especially when she was the reason that I broke it off.............any thoughts?