Jayme Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Hey all, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all. I've recently got to know this lady who's 2 years older than me. We kinda went out once, everything seems great. But the second date just doesn't seem to be coming. Well, I used to ask her out using text messages and stuffs. But I finally got the courage to call her and ask her out, on the pretext that I kinda want to pass her, her Christmas present. So I asked her out tomorrow. But she kinda replied very sternly, "Why not we talk online tomorrow?" Saying that she didn't know whether would she be free tomorrow. What should I do? It's seems to me that I kinda jumped in too soon in the conversation to ask her out. I'm really confused. I think I kinda screwed it didn't I? Link to comment
Zorba Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Probably game over. If she wanted to go out she would have made time to do so. Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Talk online tomorrow? Does that sound like a date to you? No. Decline that silly offer and move on. Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Hey all, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all. I've recently got to know this lady who's 2 years older than me. We kinda went out once, everything seems great. But the second date just doesn't seem to be coming. Well, I used to ask her out using text messages and stuffs. But I finally got the courage to call her and ask her out, on the pretext that I kinda want to pass her, her Christmas present. So I asked her out tomorrow. But she kinda replied very sternly, "Why not we talk online tomorrow?" Saying that she didn't know whether would she be free tomorrow. What should I do? It's seems to me that I kinda jumped in too soon in the conversation to ask her out. I'm really confused. I think I kinda screwed it didn't I? 1. I'd say don't ask a girl out via text messages. 2. I wouldn't give a xmas gift to someone I went on one date with. 3. I'd back off a little. If she wants you, she'll let you know. just my opinion... Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 don't do anything online with her. what a nut. why did you buy this girl a xmas gift after one date? Link to comment
Jayme Posted December 28, 2007 Author Share Posted December 28, 2007 Thanks for the replies. I guess nothing good is gonna come out of this isn't it? That's what I thought too, just needed to confirm it. Hockeyboy, that's what I thought too. On your 1st advice. That's why I kinda called her for the first time to really ask her out. I guess it seriously didn't turn out that well. Gosh, I kinda really screwed it. Link to comment
Jayme Posted December 28, 2007 Author Share Posted December 28, 2007 Well, ghost69, I kinda thought it was Christmas and stuff, maybe it could help to bring us further? I don't know. Maybe I was thinking too much. Remember the previous post about the earrings ghost69? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 ohhhhh, this was the girl? it was one date? Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 i just read your other post...she has a boyfriend...stay away. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 yeah, that's what i thought. what kind of girl goes on a date with a bf already? no girl i'd want to be with, that's for sure. Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 Yes, you got suckered. Went out on a date with a taken woman and even bought her a present. Learn from this. Your job as a single man is to qualify a woman to your standards, not try to buy over every girl that gives you attention. No gifts. No real gifts until you're an item, and even then sparsely. Link to comment
Jayme Posted December 29, 2007 Author Share Posted December 29, 2007 I guess you guys are right. Just too much too soon. Rushed in headless. I feel terrible now. Link to comment
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