He Called, but NO Mesage

[Lilacs]

My ex called but didn't leave a message. My voicemail has been screwy and it just says my number and no longer has my greeting. I shouldn't call him back right? If he wants to talk he'll call back...?

[CatsMeeoow]

I'd give him a couple of days to call back... if no call and you are still curious then ring him up and say I say you called a few days ago but I was out... did you need something?

 

 

[elveden]

Don't play these games.. they're so unhealthy for your mind..

 

Do what you have to do.. there's no other way to say it really

[bustertypsy]

I'd give him a couple of days to call back... if no call and you are still curious then ring him up and say I say you called a few days ago but I was out... did you need something?

 

 

 

I agree!!!!

[Hope75]

Do you want to talk to him?

 

What were the circumstances of the breakup, and who initiated it?

[jettison]

My ex called but didn't leave a message. My voicemail has been screwy and it just says my number and no longer has my greeting. I shouldn't call him back right? If he wants to talk he'll call back...?

 

I can help you. This is what he was going to say:

 

The polite, I'm doing super duper without you.

 

"I just wanted to wish you happy holidays. I hope you're doing well. I do still think about you, and I hope you're great. Say hi to the folks for me."

 

Is that vague enough for you? That was likely the gist of the message 19 out of 20 times.

 

Here's the drunk dial version though, egg-nog edition:

 

"What's up baby doll! Just having a blast here with the parental units. Can't get you off my mind for some reason. You better not be having too good of a time without me. Member that time we snuck out of that party and did it in the rec. room while my folks slept in the other room. We were so crazy then. K, call me sometime if you want. Later."

 

Here's the 1 in 20, Christmas has got me down version:

 

"Hey.... I'm not sure why I'm calling exactly. I don't have anything specific to say. I guess I just really wanted to hear you voice. And... ummm... well. Yea, I guess I kind of miss you. Do you miss me too? Ok, if you ever wanna talk then I'll be around."

 

And where will any of these messages get you? Likely, nowhere.

[guessjeans]

I wouldnt call him back! Why? I say let him know that you arent waiting by the phone for him to call, that you have moved on with your life and you dont care if he called or not.

 

Trust me..if he wants you bad enough, he will find a way to talk to you, where he calls back, lands on your doorstep or hires a plane with a banner that says "please call me"!

 

I wouldnt call him especially if no message was left. He is fishing! Could have had a couple of drinks and was feeling lonely..who knows. Its like smoking or any another addication...love is a very strong addication..and if you dont want to get allow yourself to go through everything you have gone thru so far, all over again..i would advise that you dont call him! you dont do anything! Send him a clear message that you have a life to lead and it doesnt include calling him back just because his number came up on your ID phone screen.

 

guessjeans

[remainstrong]

"""I wouldnt call him back! Why? I say let him know that you arent waiting by the phone for him to call, that you have moved on with your life and you dont care if he called or not.

 

Trust me..if he wants you bad enough, he will find a way to talk to you, where he calls back, lands on your doorstep or hires a plane with a banner that says "please call me"!

 

I wouldnt call him especially if no message was left. He is fishing! Could have had a couple of drinks and was feeling lonely..who knows. Its like smoking or any another addication...love is a very strong addication..and if you dont want to get allow yourself to go through everything you have gone thru so far, all over again..i would advise that you dont call him! you dont do anything! Send him a clear message that you have a life to lead and it doesnt include calling him back just because his number came up on your ID phone screen. """

SPOT ON!!!!