New to sex. What can i do to make it feel better??

[Smartchick2004]

I just started having sex about 3 months ago and it doesn't feel that good. I mean being that close to my boyfriend makes me feel good but the actual intercourse part doesnt feel like anything. Is this normal or is there something wrong with me? What can i do to make it feel better?

[Michelle2234]

You are doing nothing wrong, and this is pretty normal. Trust me, you'll know when you need to do something. One of these times, he's more than likely going to hit the spot, or you will move just right so you MAKE him hit the spot, and then you'll know what to do to make it great almost everytime!

[zoggie]

Hey,

 

Lets face it sex is pretty scary at first, you think about how you look, how your body looks, how you smell, how your face looks when you are feeling good.... The key is relaxation, love yourself, confidence is the sexiest thing of all. If you masterbate and know what feels good to you let him know. You need to learn from each other and if you don't tell him, he'll never know. If you don't masterbate, start, it's the best way to find out what feels good and in knowing that you can relay that info. to your partner. You are beautiful and he knows that, making love, having sex is a lot to do with how your mindset is. Let your body move and moan and don't keep it in, someone who is obviously enjoying themselves is very sexy. Don't worry and stress out, if you are over 21 have a glass of wine, or 3, let your mind go during sex, let the images that come,come and take a deep breath and let go of all your anxieties. Good luck little one.