KG Posted December 26, 2007 Share Posted December 26, 2007 I'm OK today...just miss being held and cuddled! Gonna get over it, but SO miss it! BLAH! Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted December 26, 2007 Share Posted December 26, 2007 Don't have someone to hug and cuddle either...my dog serves as a substitute...he loves to cuddle! Link to comment
NewPhillyGuy Posted December 26, 2007 Share Posted December 26, 2007 I'm OK today...just miss being held and cuddled! Gonna get over it, but SO miss it! BLAH! I hear you. This is what I miss most about being in a relationship - just having someone to get close to. Link to comment
violingirl Posted December 26, 2007 Share Posted December 26, 2007 I haven't been hugged/cuddled by a man for nearly 3 years, and I desperately miss it. I miss feeling physically close to someone I care about. I am similar to Crazyaboutdogs - my cat serves as a substitute. She loves it when I pick her up and hug and kiss her. She purrs so loudly. Link to comment
just M.E. Posted December 26, 2007 Share Posted December 26, 2007 I to real miss that and just the smell of a man, I do love that, being close and warm, (she signs deeply, and looks out, wondering ...... when) OK so much for melodrama, but I still miss it ;-) Link to comment
Night Pumpkin Posted December 26, 2007 Share Posted December 26, 2007 Awwww.......... Thatz a long time to go without a hug from the opposite sex !!!!! Is there any particular reason you can't meet guys who can hug you, even if they would only be guy friends ???? Link to comment
violingirl Posted December 26, 2007 Share Posted December 26, 2007 Awwww.......... Thatz a long time to go without a hug from the opposite sex !!!!! Is there any particular reason you can't meet guys who can hug you, even if they would only be guy friends ???? Personally, I don't cuddle with guys who are just friends, because I reserve that for guys I am attracted to on all levels (i.e., a boyfriend). I really don't know why I haven't been able to find another relationship for almost 3 years. I went on a lot of dates (via online dating sites) for the first 1 1/2 years after the breakup, which didn't result in anything. Then I got tired of all of the rejection and my lack of success with men, so I went on fewer dates, and still didn't find a relationship. Right now, I am not going on any dates, because I am tired of the dating scene. It feels a bit pointless. I am not one of those people who likes to date around or who dates for fun, so going on tons of first dates becomes boring and repetitive (and discouraging) for me. I would love to be with someone special - to hug, hold hands, run my fingers through his hair - but it is just not happening for me. Link to comment
lightn Posted December 26, 2007 Share Posted December 26, 2007 Violin Girl: AWWW that is so sweet on the 2 last statements. I wish I had someone that I was close with. It has been over 2 years for me the last hug and holding hands and it is not happening to me either. Link to comment
Hope75 Posted December 26, 2007 Share Posted December 26, 2007 KG, Hug and cuddle with your son! Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted December 26, 2007 Share Posted December 26, 2007 Since we are confessing all here: I know this sounds like I'm a total suck and not really a man at all, but to be honest sometimes I miss the hugs and snuggles more than the sex. I'm not getting any of the three at this point so .... Merry Christmas... Link to comment
KG Posted December 27, 2007 Author Share Posted December 27, 2007 Hugs mean so much more!!! Link to comment
Proactive Paradigm Posted December 27, 2007 Share Posted December 27, 2007 I had some the other day from a girl friend and yeah, it is so the most important thing to be missing. Makes you feel... real, y'know? Link to comment
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