What the frick?!

[Grapefruit]

I'm totally embarrassed about this, but I have to find out what's going on or I'll never have sex again!

 

Where to start? Well my boyfriend and I were fooling around, as Ive never orgasmed he's set a goal for himself. He wont give up until Ive orgasmed - by way of fingering and sex. The embarrassing stuff happened one night while he was fingering me. ***sorry if this is to much info - I just thought that Id get the best answers if I gave all the info upfront*** Well I got all squirmy and twitchy, and I couldn't stop laughing, telling him to stop, and such. (I was all freaked out because I had the urge to pee.)

 

Well he wouldn't stop and some kind of liquid came out, it wasn't pee though - I only know this because I was freaking out and he sniffed it. -.-' After each time, I make him stop and run to the bathroom, in which I go pee. Now this has happened a TON of times, maybe like three or four times each time that hes fingered me - which is often.

 

I haven't let him come near me since the last time when my fluids went through a blanket, the sheets and made the mattress damp. So my question is, what is this liquid. Ive been told that when some women orgasm that they produce a liquid but I didn't orgasm...at least I don't think I did - because Ive been told that when a woman orgasms that she would KNOW that she did and I dont think I did. If that makes sense....

 

Thanks for the responses..

 

Much Love

Grapefruit

[DN]

This may help you and set your mind at ease:

 

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[musicguy]

I'm thinking that you might have squirted. If it doesn't smell like pee, then you squirted (female ejaculation) and its not a bad thing

[KG]

It's a squirt...technically, you can't pee when in a state of high arousal...many women say Stop, or I'll pee...you are almost at orgasm, let it come, it's an orgasm. You are one of a select few who squirt...odorless, tasteless...it's cool, just need towels under you!

Congrats to your B/F...he did the job!

[Grapefruit]

Thank you for the link DN ^_^

 

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I thought that ejaculation happened AFTER the orgasm.... and what about the fact that I get slightly sensitive afterwards?

 

The few times this has happened was only during fingering, not sex... does that make a difference?

 

Much Love

Grapefruit

[KG]

Google "squirt videos amateur", you'd be surprised how often ths happens!

[Mythical_Suicide]

Thank you for the link DN ^_^

 

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I thought that ejaculation happened AFTER the orgasm.... and what about the fact that I get slightly sensitive afterwards?

 

The few times this has happened was only during fingering, not sex... does that make a difference?

 

 

It happens DURING an orgasm, consider yourself "lucky" many many men would love to make their women "squirt". The fact that you get slightly sensitive afterwards is proof that you did have an orgasm.. I know with me, after I orgasm it doesn't so much hurt but i get really really sensitive in the area for alittle while afterwards and have to stop for a few minutes.

[ghost69]

least it didn't go accross the room.

[cleo_gurl]

You are lucky most women want to have that.

[someguy88]

No reason to be embarrassed. I think the majority of guys will agree that the wetter you get the more turned on we get.

[tiredofvampires]

That's a great link, DN.

 

I have yet to read it all.

 

But I would guess that, since every part in a female's anatomy (except the uterus) has it's counterpart in male anatomy (how cool is that), and similar physiological processes occur in both, since a man has "pre-cum" that is released, this kind of "squirting" can happen during high levels of arousal in a woman even if she hasn't had an orgasm.

[musicguy]

the wetter the better

[BronzedSkin123]

I have no desire to squirt. I think it's kinda gross. I hate it when I used to get really wet from oral sex, it felt so mushy and slimy eww

[Ashleigh_n_TN]

i have never had an orgasm... and ive been sexually active for about 4 years.....

 

i couldnt help you lol

[Zampotne]

yeah you squirted like everyone said

 

and can i also add that you would have had an orgasm if you'd just let your bf keep going. it feels like you are going to pee when you are close, but you aren't- and if you just keep going you will orgasm

 

your poor bf is trying so hard and you keep stopping him when he's almost there!

[Grapefruit]

It happens DURING an orgasm, consider yourself "lucky" many many men would love to make their women "squirt". The fact that you get slightly sensitive afterwards is proof that you did have an orgasm.. I know with me, after I orgasm it doesn't so much hurt but i get really really sensitive in the area for alittle while afterwards and have to stop for a few minutes.

 

If I orgasmed then they're not what they're cracked up to be O.o

 

But I would guess that, since every part in a female's anatomy (except the uterus) has it's counterpart in male anatomy (how cool is that), and similar physiological processes occur in both, since a man has "pre-cum" that is released, this kind of "squirting" can happen during high levels of arousal in a woman even if she hasn't had an orgasm.

 

That would make a lot of sense Great help!

 

I have no desire to squirt. I think it's kinda gross. I hate it when I used to get really wet from oral sex, it felt so mushy and slimy eww

 

I couldnt agree more -.-'

 

yeah you squirted like everyone said

 

and can i also add that you would have had an orgasm if you'd just let your bf keep going. it feels like you are going to pee when you are close, but you aren't- and if you just keep going you will orgasm

 

your poor bf is trying so hard and you keep stopping him when he's almost there!

 

My boyfriend was reading these along with me...he gave me a "I told you so" look when he read your reply....thanks. Nah, just kidin *huggles and snuggles*

 

Thank you all for the replies....although I'm still TOTALLY freaked out by this... I'd GLADLY pass "squirting" of to anyone who wants it cause I don't

 

Much Love

Grapefruit