So my gf is all into blowjobs/foreplay but she doesn't want to have sex

[Iwantittoend]

She's had sex before but she hasn't for over a year now because of some things that happened. Basically she got pregnant by being forced into sex by her ex boyfriend. She had a miscarriage and left him. Since then, she hasn't done anything with any guy besides kissing.

 

I understand and am willing to wait. I haven't had sex yet either. But now all this week she's been saying how before she goes into the army (2 weeks), she's going to give me a blowjob as a going away present. It seems like everytime we're alone she jerks me off. It makes me so horny and wanting more, and sometimes she lets me rub her boobs but never her vagina. I don't get why.

 

I don't really think it's fair for her to do this to me and her not expect anything in return...you know?

[Superfreak]

Well it must have been a very traumatic experience for her. I'd recommend counselling for her although if she's not willing to seek out any then taking baby-steps are key.

 

Don't feel bad that you're not pleasuring her in return, if she doesn't want it then you wouldn't really be pleasuring her would you? Express your appreciation for her in other ways and hopefully by taking things slowly you guys can work up to intercourse soon.

[GTM]

iwantittoend,

 

 

i am in the position your girlfriend is in, with the girl im seeing. she will give me head anytime, however many times i want it, and she will do it for hours. (and i tell ya, i NEVER want them to stop they are that good)

 

SHE has been pressuring me for sex. now, it wasnt my idea for the blow jobs, it was hers. she wanted to please me one night and now shes addicted to doing it to me. i had an ex girlfriend that came after me after breaking up with her telling me she was pregnant, and it was mine. why did she wait over 4 months to tell me? needless to say, come to find out almost 7 months after that, its not mine.........

 

NOW heres my delima, which "could" be your girlfriends too. i am totally SCARED sh@tless to get another girl pregnant, and to get her pregnant, you must have sex. so if i dont have sex, she cant get pregnant. maybe this is your g/f view on it. solution: i dont know. i know I am NOT ready for it. maybe the key would be for extra precautions, like spermacide, and morning after pill etc.........

 

if you figure it out, let me know..............

[ghost69]

count your lucky stars. most girls want sex and won't give oral. not fully anyways.

[Cardinal]

I agree with ghost. I have yet to be with a woman who really enjoyed going down frequently. Count yourself lucky for now.

 

The sad part is the reason why. Hope she can work through what happened in the past to enjoy sex soon.

[Tom Cruise]

did she say she was pregnant or did you actually see her pregnant? i am telling you man............ MAYBE SHE'S GOT A * * * * !!!

[Tom Cruise]

They Bleeped Out What I Wanted To Say........

It Is Penis......................