Is "the bigger the better" always true?

[PLC]

There is one guy confided me that his penis is extreemly bigger than normal size. He likes petite women and had several relationship with Asian girls. However, it's always painful as he cannot get into the intercourse without hurting the woman. Eventually, the relation went down and he is sad, feels nervous when starting a new relation...He is too much nervous by starting the conversation with his problem to a new girl he found and starts dating. This sounds strange to me. Is it true that in certain special cases, there is an incompatible about size between male and female sex organ? Any idea?

[circi]

My ex is huge. Lubricant or lots and lots of foreplay is necessary in order for it to not hurt. There are also certain positions that are better than others.

[ebizdiva]

I think that his situation has more to do with his sexual performance than his penis size. The vagina is an amazing body part. It will stretch to accommodate a penis of any size IF the vagina is properly lubricated and the female is significantly turned on. I would tell him to make sure that he takes his time, slows down, engages in a lot of foreplay and invest in lubricants. If a woman is not properly turned on she will be dryer and she will not expand to fit him.

 

Also the pain is going to depend on how much experience the female has and over time as her body begins to learn his size it will be a lot easier and a lot more fun. Hope that helps.

 

Sharifah

[jevonj77]

Right...the vagina does change sizes you know. I mean...if you properly stretch it before intercourse...are lubricated enough...and such...there should be no problem. However there might be a problem initially if his penis is too big for the size that the vagina is initially stretched to. That would only mean that you'd have to practice stretching it until it is bigger.

 

I mean, how else would a baby come through there if it was only one size? I've also seen people stick their heads in a woman's vagina( I know...weird and psycho) but I'm quite sure that this woman's vagina was not always that size and did not remain that size after she stopped doing that.

 

So patience will have to be a part of this relationship if it doesn't fit initially.

[ebizdiva]

I've also seen people stick their heads in a woman's vagina( I know...weird and psycho) but I'm quite sure that this woman's vagina was not always that size and did not remain that size after she stopped doing that.

 

Urgh...Gross..

[ghost69]

lubes all the way.

[BronzedSkin123]

Yeah babies do come out of the vagina but childbirth is painful for most. And just because something big can fit in & out of there doesn't mean it will feel good.

[jevonj77]

I'm just saying...it can strech. The size can change and a baby is much bigger than any penis. So the idea is to practice stretching it gradually until it accepts larger sizes with little to no pain. This might take a while...but surely it can happen...and does. I speak from personal experience...seeing the change happen...even though while speaking here I mostly used the theoretical.