Has any girls here gone out with a deformed, disfigured guy?

[iwishiknew]

Just wondering if any girls here have gone out with a deformed or disfigured guy? Was it easy for you to go out with him? Was it a turn off for you? Did you have a hard time getting to know him? Were you embarrassed going out with him? What was your experience?

[LBP]

What are we talking about here? Is it something from birth or is it an injury?

[CarnelianButterfly]

I've had several friends with a range of birth defects and disfigurements. I didn't date them, but then I didn't date anyone, dating wasn't my interest. I had crushes on two of the guys actually. All the same I had no issues being seen with them or even cared what others thought. I had no trouble getting to know them.

[Daligal83]

I have not, but my old roommate dated a guy who had a birth defect with his hand. It didn't bother her one bit and she was absolutely crazy about him.

[Hope75]

I'm curious what makes you ask?

 

You mentioned having surgery in some earlier threads.

 

Are we talking about you?

[iambrazilian]

Most likely yes, I assume.

 

No prob, mate. Just come out. It's a forum.

[iwishiknew]

Yes, I am talking about myself and birth defects. And yes I did have surgery last week. I am just curious if having birth defects plays a big factor in getting a date. I know it does, but I am curious how many girls here have gone out with a guy who had birth defects or disfigured? Were you just grossed out by the birth defect and made you uncomfortable being with him? If you did date a guy who had birth defects did you date him again? Did he end up being your girl friend?

[sparkly]

i worked with a man who cut his finger off by accident a long time ago and when i first saw i was shocked but i got to know him really well,we got along really well and i ended up becoming really attracted to him. so no it doesn't matter to me.