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[SheWolf]

About two weeks ago I gave my husband a hand job, well he didn't tell me at the time that I squeezed him a little too hard, and now he's saying that the reason he hasn't been lasting long during sex and fooling around is because I may have damaged him. I'm really worried, he never had a problem lasting until now. I know he hasn't cheated on me (because we are around each other nearly every second of every day, and he can't drive and doesn't know any other girls in the area except me.) He says he doesn't feel any pain when he urinates or when we do stuff, he just felt the pain the seconds or minutes when I was too rough. I feel so bad, I hope it's nothing serious. Please respond.

[Censored]

Well tell him to go see a doctor.

 

To be honest, I HIGHLY doubt you damaged him with a handjob. The old fella, is generally very tough and can take a real beating (pun intended )

[SheWolf]

Thank you, I just feel so bad

[Censored]

If you were really really doing damage, trust me, he would have made you stop.

 

Don't feel bad, you didn't damage it, i can almost assure you completely of that!!!

[SheWolf]

Well he says he's also been depressed here lately and I think that can have an affect on how "long" he lasts. I heard that somewhere. But I suppose it shouldn't be too bad if he's not still in pain.

[Censored]

It is far more likely that if he is depressed or stressed that this will be what the problem is. If he can get an erection, but not hold it, then it is probably psychological. Probably still a good reason for him to visit his local MD and have a discussion with him/her on some of his concerns.

[Puckdog27]

Depression and stress will cause problems. Also, the penis is one big blood vessel. Had you done any damage you would have ruptured vessels and there would have been huge amounts of bruising.

[ebizdiva]

I agree. You say he didn't tell you that you squeezed him a little too hard but "if" you squeezed him a little too hard he would have let you know at the time. He would have let out a scream to high heavens you wouldn't have been able to miss. One way or another have him go and see a Dr. He'll be back up and operational in no time.

[DN]

If he had been having erection problems with depression before this issue then that would be the likely cause. But if he had no problems before but had problems immediately after the incident then it is possible that is the cause - the coincidence factor seems rather high for it not to be. So he should see a doctor - it may be that something has become damaged or constricted and if it has it may cause other health problems.

 

But don't blame yourself - sometimes things happen during sex that were not intended.

[avman]

I would very much doubt that you caused any problems. However he should go check with a urologist if he feels he's having some sort of problem. Better to talk to a doctor and rule out anything serious.

[ghost69]

i've never heard of someone that had a complication from a handjob. cept for that one guy bobbitt.