UPDATE!!! We are back together =)

[xxfitchick]

For those of you who are unfamiliar with my story, my boyfriend of almost two years and I were on a break due to my recent change in behavior, namely becoming needy, jealous, and generally unpleasant. We were supposed to get back together after two weeks, but he extended it, so we are apart for six weeks total.

 

i made all the common mistakes at first, begging, saying i'd change, love letter, being mopey and miserable... BUT I kept faith, got my stuff together, changed my behavior through actions and after ONE DAY of being home together, he asked me back out.

 

Additionally, he commented on the fact that I went very LC with him, so I am now a believer.

 

If anybody needs advice or just a more hopeful, optimistic viewpoint, feel free to PM me or post on my thread. I couldn't be happier that he and I are back together and I can tell he's making an effort to make things wonderful. Things are not perfect yet, I still am not fully over some of the hurtful things that happened during the break and my jealousy issues are not fully resolved (but at least i'm keeping them to myself hehe) but I am getting there.

 

Best wishes and happy holidays to all, KEEP THE FAITH!!! YOU CAN ACHIEVE SOMETHING POSITIVE OUT OF A BREAK OR BREAK-UP REGARDLESS OF WHETHER YOUR STORY ENDS LIKE MINE!!!

[musashi]

Fantastic! We could use more of this here.

 

Don't disappear from this site as there are many (such as myself) that learn from people like yourself.

 

And congrats! Wish you the best!

[greensleeves]

Happy to hear that things have worked out for you...it's nice to hear some good news!

[Crazyaboutdogs]

Congratulations!! Just work on putting the hurtful things behind you otherwise they will ultimately interfere with what you have now. Never stop working on yourself to overcome your demons....and be very aware so that you can catch yourself if you start falling back into old behaviours. Enjoy the holidays!

[Timebandit]

Cool - and congratulations. Try to work some more on your issues, not just to make your relationship better, but also improve on your life in generel.

[Frangipani]

Keep us in the loop. It's always good to hear what other people have done and are doing to achieve what you have. Great news, now just keep up the good work...but make sure he does some work too