Need help really bad..

[rs3rs3]

Okay.... Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a yeear, i realize im really young(14) but i really love her more than anything, We've been having sex for about 6 months now, and we've been doing that a lot lately..She told me she wanted to take a break that we were always fighting and doing that too much and i love her so much it's crazy i'm so confused she also told me she kinda liked this other guy but she doesnt anymore....I'm so depressed i just want it to end, she promised me we would be together forever and she would never ever break up with me, maybe i love her more than she loves me idk, i keep thinking about just comitting suicide and ending it all... At first i told her about it but now she's all worried and says she loves me more than anything,,, i dont even know if that is true because i think she just doesnt want me to hurt myself... i don't want her to fake loving me, idk im confused please help me...

[rs3rs3]

Sombody please.... im really desperate here....

[enchiladaman]

Hang in there, bud.

 

I know this may be a difficult concept to grasp given your situation, but you are so young and have so much in your life to look forward to with or without this girl.

 

You need to grab a hold of your emotions and take control of yourself and your life. Don't let the depression or hurt control your behavior or make yourself do something stupid.

 

I have been depressed over girls since I was about your age. Old relationships fading and new relationships developing are a huge part of what makes this life great. So chin up...I promise that you will love again. You really need to take your focus off your girlfriend and enjoy being a 14 year old. Play sports with friends or play music with them.

 

Maybe your girlfriend is scared that she is so young and you guys rushed into the sexual relationship too quickly and is confused. It is a lot of responsibility!!!! If you love her let her have some space from all of that pressure!

 

And take care of yourself.