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I'm freakishly clumsy. I bump into things several times a day. My shins are always lines with bruises. I have boney hipbones and am constantly misjudging the width of doorways and wacking myself to the point where both sides of my hipbones are usually bruised up. I know this sounds like a joke but I'm serious. I'm constantly stubbing toes and wacking elbows. It's also embarrassing out in public because I'm always walking into stuff. Anyone know why I might be this way?

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I'm the same way, haha. If you figure it out, let me know!

 

Sometimes I blame it on being left-handed though... And having to live in a world that wasn't made for me. Mostly though, I've just decided that I'm unlucky--plain and simple.

 

Maybe not enough exercise or fine motor skills training when I was a child?

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I have the same problem, I have bruises at the height of all the tables and door knobs in the house.

 

I'm not sure why, I used to be very balanced and more aware, I did ice skating and ballet and was good at both. I started getting migraines and I think they might have effected my inner ear, my balance sucks. I do yoga to try to get some semblance of my previous balance, it helps, but I still have trouble. I don't even want to think what I'd be like on the ice.

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I'm surprised by all the responses. Good to know I'm not the only one.

 

Could it be that you are either

A. In a hurry all the time?

 

No, I'm more of a stop-and-smell-the-roses kind of person,

 

or

B. Not paying attention to your surroundings?

 

Definitely. I spend alot of time in lala land.

 

Me not walk around wall. Me walk thru wall.

 

lol!

 

 

As a couple of you mentioned, I also thought it might be inner ear issues. I'll sometimes also stumble over a bit - as if I was drunk.

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If you are serious in overcoming your dilemma...

 

1)take a dance class

 

I do bellydancing in my living room. Does that count?

 

2) learn geometry/physics and how they apply to body mechanics and then learn to take the proper angles on negotiating around things (a complex undertaking but one which i did since its job related)

 

I'd actually been thinking of going back to school and getting a degree in physics. Now I have a practical reason for doing so. Sweet.

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I would say certainly belly dancing counts. Just start upping your awareness of what muscles are moving and how they move...physics is worth going back to school for...remember...lose your center of gravity...you lose your balance...lose your balance...you are done.

 

edit: you can google the word "proprioception" for a possible starting point torwards your journy of movement awareness.

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I was doing this all the time to (and still do to some extent, you should see my shins) but I found out it was from allergies. I was so used my head being congested that I never noticed it, I thought what I was feeling was normal. All of the congestion was throwing off my equilibrium. I now take allergy meds and my balance is much better.

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I am fine with my balance and my surroundings (I am sure yoga and overall body awareness helps!) but I AM freakishly clumsy.

 

Some examples (of many!):

 

1. I was in shower and had the shampoo poured in one hand, bottle in other - had a snap lid...went to close it on my hip bone and it pinched shut on my skin (ow). Bad enough but when I went to show my boyfriend how I did it a week later....I DID IT AGAIN.

 

2. I was riding my bike trainer a couple winters ago. My mum phoned so I was talking to her and just spinning...went to adjust the fan so it was not blowing into the phone - reached over, finger (I have little fingers) slipped through the cage and I cut off the tip....of course I did not want to feel like an idiot so I just kept talking to my mum and after I hung up I yelped...LOL.

 

3. Last winter I was on the treadmill. Just totally lost focus for some reason and tripped over my own feet, flew off the back but there were boxes not too far behind the treadmill so they trapped my leg between them and the tread which took about two layers of skin off my entire shin. I was just happy I did not hit my head and go unconscious - that would of been an interesting CSI episode!

 

I bruise easily too though, so when I do bang something, I look like I have been beaten. You should see me during mountain biking season!

 

 

Anything that requires body awareness and spatial awareness can be great for your balance/awareness of surroundings. Dancing, yoga, martial arts, capoeira (I think I spelt that wrong!).....and make a point to walk in the MIDDLE of doorways.

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I think some people are just made to be clumsy - I'm bad enough, when I was in primary school I'd come home and show my nan what injuries I had incurred that day! But my boyfriend...whoa. He's quite tall and just always manages to bang into everything. A little while ago he stood up, bashed into a chair, turned round bashed into the wardrobe turned again and fell into me. It was just like a cartoon. I'm sorry to say I missed this, but he went ice skating with some of our friends and they said it was like a giraffe taking its first steps! lol

 

I think if none of the (very helpful!) suggestions people have given so far come to any fruition, you may just be like myself and my boyfriend, naturally clumsy, and maybe invest in cushions for tables and doorhandles?

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If you are serious in overcoming your dilemma...

 

1)take a dance class

 

2) learn geometry/physics and how they apply to body mechanics and then learn to take the proper angles on negotiating around things (a complex undertaking but one which i did since its job related)

 

i agree - i think dance helps me, because you not only have to look pretty doing something, but not crash into other people while doing it that might help.

 

you can also throw away the offending coffee table.

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I'm freakishly clumsy. I bump into things several times a day. My shins are always lines with bruises. I have boney hipbones and am constantly misjudging the width of doorways and wacking myself to the point where both sides of my hipbones are usually bruised up. I know this sounds like a joke but I'm serious. I'm constantly stubbing toes and wacking elbows. It's also embarrassing out in public because I'm always walking into stuff. Anyone know why I might be this way?

 

I'm the same way. I recently broke my toe on a wall that has been in my home since I've lived here.

 

I usually bang into corners of furniture and end up with bruised legs.

 

I fell outside the other day for no good reason, after twisting my ankle on nothing.

 

I drop & spill things a lot too.

 

I don't know why I'm clumsy, if you can figure it out let me know!!!!! (Sometimes I think it's because

I'm always in a rush??????)

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I'm freakishly clumsy. I bump into things several times a day. My shins are always lines with bruises. I have boney hipbones and am constantly misjudging the width of doorways and wacking myself to the point where both sides of my hipbones are usually bruised up. I know this sounds like a joke but I'm serious. I'm constantly stubbing toes and wacking elbows. It's also embarrassing out in public because I'm always walking into stuff. Anyone know why I might be this way?

 

You've probably got aspberger's.

 

I bump into things all the time but I am big and loveable so people find it funny.

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Hmm, this thread has made me feel better. I am clumsy as well.

 

Altho I know why. It's because i always rush and try to do everything too fast so i misjudge the distance of ajar doors and tables and just about everything. LOL

 

EDIT: LOL Belladonna I just read your post. Sounds like you do what I do...rushing and making good time. That is my motto "gotta make good time" lol what's a few bruises if it all gets done quickly? ROFL

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Hmm, this thread has made me feel better. I am clumsy as well.

 

Altho I know why. It's because i always rush and try to do everything too fast so i misjudge the distance of ajar doors and tables and just about everything. LOL

 

EDIT: LOL Belladonna I just read your post. Sounds like you do what I do...rushing and making good time. That is my motto "gotta make good time" lol what's a few bruises if it all gets done quickly? ROFL

 

Sorry I had to laugh at that one. Oh - those papercuts.

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