christmas day contact

[lightandmagic]

25th december = potential minfield, so i thought i'd start a thread about it.

 

is anyone going to break nc to wish them a happy christmas?

 

what will you do if they call?

 

i'm not going to contact him at all. if he calls, i'll not pick up. he always leaves a voicemail (annoyingly, even when he knows i'll just phone back in a minute), so i'll see how that sounds, but in that case i probably won't reply for a day or two, and then it'll be by text to say "hey, hope you had a good xmas, give me a call later for a chat if you want". if it's just a text, it depends on how personal or not it is. if it's just "happy christmas", then i'll probably not reply. something more, and i'll probably reply after a day or two.

 

clearly i've already given this too much thought, and as what we plan for rarely happens, he'll probably not get in touch at all! or i'll have a little too much christmas spirit and find it harder to stick to my guns!

[greensleeves]

This is a good one. I've been wanting to break NC and was thinking wishing a Merry Christmas would be a good excuse, but I am determined not to do it!!! If he calls me I don't know what I'll do. My brain is telling me to keep it short and simple "Merry Christmas to you too, hope everything's good with you, gotta go now." Don't know what the reality will be, hopefully I won't have to deal with either scenario.

[delerium6]

is anyone going to break nc to wish them a happy christmas?

 

Not me.

 

what will you do if they call?

 

I'm sure she won't. But if she does, I'll return the holiday wishes.

[emalkoc]

No Contact.........

[CreoUCLA]

I definitely won't. I'll be in Hawaii (Maui) anyway... I'll be too busy having fun to even think about my ex.

 

-Mike-

[AngryHeart]

No. I'm not planning on it. He broke my heart a few weeks before Xmas - why should I wish him a "merry christmas" I hope he has a miserable Christmas without me, realising what he has thrown away

[orchidrose]

No wayyy. My therapist seems to think that's he's going to break NC to wish me merry Christmas, but the holidays have always meant very little to him and it's apparent that I mean very little to him, so I doubt it.

 

I'll be home with my family though having a peaceful, gift-ful day, so I doubt I'll care. It always pissed me off how little he cared about Christmas, anyway.

[sbux_addict]

I definitely can't since he did not respond to my last email...x

 

Just curious, what did you write on your email?

[lovemeorleaveme00]

Ive been thinking about this since Ive been soooo good with NC.If he greets me I will greet him back.I wont go down to that level that he was trying to pull.There's someone at work whos such a snob that if I greet him goodmorning sometimes he acts like he cant be bothered.I still greet him and I dont care if he doesnt respond.I always like being the better person and thats how my mother raised me..so in the spirit of christmas I will wish him well...Its going to be my 30th day of NC on xmas and I will celebrate my NC

by greetin him MC!!!