yep. my bf left me for a twinkie!

[SeaBisquit]

my bf left me for a twenty year old! who happens to be one of his daughters best friends. so what do i do? i'm not giving up.

[rostropovichclone]

my bf left me for a twenty year old! who happens to be one of his daughters best friends. so what do i do? i'm not giving up.

 

Let it run its course, and it will. Unless he's a really crappy father in addition to being a crappy bf, this will create a major situation between his new gf and his daughter. It won't last, but why would you want to take a silly, immature man like this back?

[buckdawg]

Let it run its course, and it will. Unless he's a really crappy father in addition to being a crappy bf, this will create a major situation between his new gf and his daughter. It won't last, but why would you want to take a silly, immature man like this back?

 

yeah. why?

[amtjrtcet]

yeah. why?

 

That's what I'm wondering too. I wouldn't want a man like that. The twinkie can have him!

[SeaBisquit]

whoa... a twinkie in my town just means younger meat.

[beauty21]

This man left you for one of his daughter's friends. He is not only humiliating his daughter but himself, and you too. Why would you want to be seen in public with this creep again?

[SeaBisquit]

you asked why do i want him back?...... i don't like loosing my man to a younger woman.

[JadedStar]

Yeah, like the others i have to ask "why are you not giving up"? He is making a fool of himself, don't let him drag you down too.

[JadedStar]

you asked why do i want him back?...... i don't like loosing my man to a younger woman.

 

BUt you already have.

 

He isn't worth the trouble.

[arwen]

you asked why do i want him back?...... i don't like loosing my man to a younger woman.

 

Hey Jaycee,

 

That's a difficult situation on more than one level. It's awkward for your daughter as well, I imagine. Does she know?

 

Of course you don't want your man to be with a younger woman- or with any other woman than yourself. But if he'd end the relatioship, you wouldn't be able to stop him from seeing someone in the first place.

 

Staying together or not, is something that depends on what you can work on together, and has little to do with the other woman. Except that of course, if he wants to still save his relationship with you, he has to stop seeing her immediately. Did he break up with you, or are you still together? How did you find out about this?

 

 

How was the relationship before this happened?

[beauty21]

That's a messed up reason for wanting someone back. You need to walk away like a woman, atleast you will have your dignity.

[CreoUCLA]

you asked why do i want him back?...... i don't like loosing my man to a younger woman.

 

So it's not because of love..?

 

-Mike-

[SeaBisquit]

i feel that he is going thru a midlife crisis. this girl just makes him feel younger and when he's tired of her he will come back. and yes, i do love him.

[beauty21]

Any man that would humilate me like this, I wouldn't give him another second of my time. So, he was tired of you that's why he ran to her. And you think he will run back to you when/if he get's tired of her. Seems pathetic if you ask me.

[SeaBisquit]

i don't give up that easily. i know you guys are probably right and i for sure know what he is doing is wrong. but if you really love someone aren't they worth fighting for?

[beauty21]

Not if they are cheating on you. I wouldn't fight for a cheater, I would let them go because they are doing me a favor.

[Chibby33]

It's scandalous, it's embarrassing, it's dirty! Save your dignity and get away, as far away from him as possible!

[Miss Firecracker]

i don't give up that easily. i know you guys are probably right and i for sure know what he is doing is wrong. but if you really love someone aren't they worth fighting for?

 

 

No, it is certainly not worth fighting for. He will do this again and again. I'd cut my losses on the first round.

 

I have a relative that has done this at least three different times to his wife and children. Finally, now that they are about 60 he has left her for good. And he's trying his damnedest to hide all the assets he can with the help of a good lawyer. She will end up with nothing, unless it's a case of VD.

[Miss Firecracker]

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What was this supposed to mean?

[Miss Firecracker]

Is that a scene from American Beauty? It is, isn't it?

[JadedStar]

Is that a scene from American Beauty? It is, isn't it?

 

That movie disturbed me. My daughter was that girls age at the time and i was paranoid about letting her spend the night with friends after that.

[flower99]

but if you really love someone aren't they worth fighting for?

Not if they are not willing to fight for you!

 

This man walked away from you for a 20 year old women...I don't think he could do that if he truly loved you. he's not worth your engery, your heart or you mind. Walk away.

 

 

i don't give up that easily

leaving him to her, is not giving up...It's being smart. Don't think of it as -you're giving up your man. Rather think of it as You're not giving up anything. you're walking away from a man that didn't vale you or cherish you. To find someone better & more deserving of you.

[RayKay]

I don't know either why you want a man back whom left you for another woman - whatever her age.

 

It is not worth it, and it won't be worth the fight just to "prove" something to her (or him) for that matter.

 

If you were smart you would consider it good riddance and move on to find a man whom will be far more respectful, committed and loving.

[Adrian28]

I am not sure how the person he left you for is relevant.

 

Your relationship was not working for him. People break up all the time, for various reasons.

 

What do you want from him? OK, so your ego is hurt. You will get over it. He was your boyfriend, not your husband. He wants to move on, with someone else, just not you.

 

Maybe you should accept it and move on with your life as well.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

I am not sure how the person he left you for is relevant.

Your relationship was not working for him. People break up all the time, for various reasons.

 

What do you want from him? OK, so your ego is hurt. You will get over it. He was your boyfriend, not your husband. He wants to move on, with someone else, just not you.

 

Maybe you should accept it and move on with your life as well.

 

Actually, it is relevant because it shows what a creep he is...it is bad enough leaving for a much younger woman, but this much younger woman is his daughter's friend...he has no consideration for his own daughter! I agree with the others that this man is NOT worth fighting for. The poor daughter must feel humiliated.