Cyber Sex

[Uriel]

To get to the point,

 

My wife doesnt like to have sex more than once or twice a month, which is quite the opposite for me seeing as i love to have sex with my wife. I mean why not, i love her!!!

 

But lately after not having sex for long periods of time ive found jumping onto a porn site and watching a girl get off helps me relieve my sexual tension!

 

Mind you, i dont talk to these wemon just watch what they do. so its not an emotional thing. However i feel like ive cheated on my wife! but at the same time porn just doesnt do it for me anymore!

 

I love my wife, but i also have huge amounts of sexual tension which my wife really doesnt wasnt to help out with. I try to bring the point up multiple times but always get the same response and she tells me to grow up im just, 'too busy, im working, im going to the gym, its early, its late, ect ect'

 

In my heart i know its the wrong thing to do but whats your oppinion ?

 

Uriel

[shleynic]

How do you think your wife would react if she were to find out you were doing this? Besides your sex life do you have a otherwise healthy relationship? If so, maybe you should try approching her differently. What types of things do you say to her when your bringing it up? Maybe she is not understanding how much this is affecting you.

[Kiwi_Sweet]

So you are asking if you should start having Cyber Sex with people?

[rosephase]

tell your wife about it. If she is cool, then it's fine. If your hiding it then you kind of are cheating on her. Just ask her about it.

[ghost69]

so you are watching porn on the computer? what is the problem?

 

you aren't communicating with anyone right? why not tell your wife you've been doing that? see if she says she will give you more. but if you feel bad, let her know. that'll at least let her know her lil puppy is all trained up. lol

[Silver Cloud]

To get to the point,

 

Mind you, i dont talk to these wemon just watch what they do. so its not an emotional thing. However i feel like ive cheated on my wife! but at the same time porn just doesnt do it for me anymore!

 

Uriel

 

Does this comment mean you're now considering trying cybersex since just looking isn't doing it for you anymore? Slippery slope here if that's the case.

 

Talk to your wife again. It will relieve the guilt you feel, and will give your wife another chance to understand your perspective. I'd be honest about how frustrated you are, that you've been viewing porn, and now find it isn't filling the void. You may feel that you've already expressed your concerns to her, but perhaps she just hasn't yet grasped how important it is to you, and to the marriage, to fit sex in more often.