How much time?

[macualayfan]

My b/f and I are working on this one. I happened to have found his post telling his version of the story, had no idea he post here.

 

Can anyone tell me how much time till this gets rebuilt?

[macualayfan]

If we ever make it through this, then can get close to when you start from scratch?

[karvala]

How much time depends on what happened, and the attitudes and personalities involved. There is simply not one answer to that.

 

I will add, though, that it requires not just time, but effort from both sides. As the offending party, you certainly can't just sit back and wait for him to "get over it". It requires your active participation to make things better, and his active effort to forgive what happened.

[macualayfan]

It requires your active participation to make things better, and his active effort to forgive what happened.

 

Thank you I'll make a note to that. I must be lucky to be one of the few girls that get taken back.

[macualayfan]

Nevermind it's over, screw him screw everything.

[Hope75]

Did you confront him with this new information that you found?

 

Does he know YOU post here?

[macualayfan]

Did you confront him with this new information that you found?

 

Does he know YOU post here?

 

Yes I did confront him about it and yet he expects me to just simply forget about about that he still wants to be with me. He basically tells me that I deserve it. I don't see how can this be work out if he's unwilling to put his effort. Not until he acknowledges his mistake then will I consider working it out.

 

I assume he doesn't know I post here but I seen his post somewhere in here. His version of the story is true but now he's also the loser as well. Yes I did cry and beg but it's not like I force him to take me back. If he was going to go low as I did, he could have save both his and mine time and move on with his life.