reed Posted December 18, 2007 Share Posted December 18, 2007 All of a sudden my GF became very sensitive and intercourse was painful for her. We have been having sex for months, and this has never been an issue. When I penetrated her, she complained that I was hurting her, and I wasn't even inside of her that deep. Anyone have ideas what can cause this (my first thought was that maybe she had been irritated from previous sex)? Link to comment
shes2smart Posted December 18, 2007 Share Posted December 18, 2007 Is she having any other symptoms? Like itching or discharge? She may have a vaginal infection...like a yeast infection or bacterial infection. They're common (and annoying) problems that are easily treated. Best bet is to have her set up an appointment with her gyno or a women's health clinic to get checked out. Link to comment
beauty21 Posted December 18, 2007 Share Posted December 18, 2007 Sometimes I get pains out of the blue even after having sex with my boyfriend for all these months. It may be the way he is moving or a spot he hit hard. It usually goes away after about 2 days though. Link to comment
EQD Posted December 18, 2007 Share Posted December 18, 2007 When i first started having sex i didnt have this problem. Then i got a slight infection and kept having sex (i was such a fool) That was 4 years ago, and to this day i still have pains on the first penetration, every single time. Although now the pain has lost its intensity gradually and has almost gone away completely now, i was informed by my obgyn that it was a mental thing, i was tensing up as a reflex because of the past expirience and thats why it hurt. But she should get examined by her Dr. asap so you can know for sure what the case is. Link to comment
reed Posted December 18, 2007 Author Share Posted December 18, 2007 Ok, will do. She seemed to have PLENTY of lubrication as far as I can tell. First thing I thought (bc I'm a pessimist) is that maybe she cheated and was sore.....guess that sounds kinda silly. I'll recommend she get a check-up. Link to comment
tiredofvampires Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 reed, your theory is beyond silly. It's absurd. Why would she be sore from "cheating sex", but not from having sex with you before that? Also, in your OP, you say "you weren't even in that deep". There are lots of other reasons for a woman to get sore in other areas of her genitalia. Really be careful of such assumptions. Link to comment
wiser Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 reed, your theory is beyond silly. It's absurd. Why would she be so sore from cheating, but not having sex with you? Really be careful of such assumptions. It sounds like he figures the other guy was a heck of a lot bigger than he was. Thats the only explanation. OP? Is that what you meant? Link to comment
reed Posted December 20, 2007 Author Share Posted December 20, 2007 It sounds like he figures the other guy was a heck of a lot bigger than he was. Thats the only explanation. OP? Is that what you meant? Yea. I admit it was silly to think that, but it did cross my mind, so I mentioned it here... Link to comment
wiser Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Yea. I admit it was silly to think that, but it did cross my mind, so I mentioned it here... It's an understandable but irrational fear reaction. That's definitely not the reason. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 i'd of asked 'so why do you think you are sore'. if she said 'i dunno'. i'd suggest a check-up. i wouldn't be dating a girl i didn't trust. i see a trustworthy girl here though. Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted December 21, 2007 Share Posted December 21, 2007 I have a tendency to er... Tear. I guess it comes from being so tiny and past guys who weren't. And now, I'm a little more prone to tenderness every once in a while. Sometimes though, sudden soreness can just be from a too-sharp jab at the wrong angle or something equally as simple. Or from being too tense and tightening muscles too much. Or from the condoms (I have latex sensitivity). There are a lot of reasons. Advise her to get checked out. But in your case, I'd advise that you didn't worry. =) Link to comment
Kioro Posted December 21, 2007 Share Posted December 21, 2007 I think it is connected with vaginal dryness caused by low sex drive. It's a common thing. Use Sentia or other women supplements, the help. Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted December 21, 2007 Share Posted December 21, 2007 Yes. What they said. ^^^ Maybe focus a little more on foreplay too? Link to comment
reed Posted December 24, 2007 Author Share Posted December 24, 2007 Well, she was very wet (we had some very long foreplay). We recently did it again and she had no pain....makes me wonder.... Link to comment
kristenann Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 If she has an iud that can sometime come well, dislodged (mine did that).. also, are you hitting her at a different angle? Link to comment
red_fox Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 Some people who have pain during intercourse also suffer from something caled endometriosis. This is where the lining of the uterus grows outside or beyond the uterus. It might be unlikely, but it's just a thought. Link to comment
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