He is everything I want... However he probably doesnt want me!

[second_opinion]

Ok so I went on a 'date' yesterday. We were supposed to only have coffee but ended up hanging out together for 8 hrs! We had dinner and watched a movie and he wanted to go for another coffee but I had work today and didnt want to stay out too late.

 

I dont know if he is interested. I like him allot, he is decent and really smart. He is the only guy Ive ever gone on a date with who hasnt tried kissing me or anything.

 

He hasnt called or messaged me today, and Im not going to call or text him first. But It was just weird, I mean we had fun, he kept saying he had a good time, we made eachother laugh and all... he is really sweet!

 

I just wish I knew if he likes me! LOL ...Knowing my luck he wont call or text or anything at all... *sigh* I dont know what is up with me! I always attract the jerks or players! Never have I dated such a decent guy before!

[RayKay]

1. I doubt he would hang out for eight hours if he was not interested (and even that is a lot of work for some booty....)

 

2. I would not start saying he is "everything you want" until you know him beyond a few dates. Just enjoy it and getting to know him. You don't know HIM yet, only what he appears to be on a "fun date" without much pressure and so on.

 

3. Relax, it's only the next day.

 

4. Nothing wrong with sending him an email or call, but I would another day or two and keep it short and simple and then let him follow up (i.e. don't keep following up).

[girlonthetrain]

When I met my boyfriend, he didn't call until a week after he got my #. After our first date I knew he was really shy, and I knew he was going to call but I was impatient and didn't feel like waiting. So I called him a couple of days later to say thanks and that I had a great time. He was happy to hear from me and we hung out the next day and the day after that. I looked at it this way: if he likes me a whole lot, then I can call and he'll still like me. If he's not smitten, then what do I need him for anyway. Maybe not all guys are the same way, but he was shy, so I figured I'd be ok.

 

Later he would tell me that on our first date, I was so much prettier than he had remembered and he found out I was 11 years older than him so he thought I'd want to have nothing to do with him, then, as he put it "You called!"

 

So wait a couple of days and see what happens. A lot of guys don't want to appear too anxious. If you don't hear from him, and you're too shy to call or want to play it safe, send him a quick text saying you had a great time with him. Also, I agree that you shouldn't decide he's "everything you want" right away. You still have a lot of getting to know each other left to do!

 

Good luck

[second_opinion]

Thanks guys! Im just so nervous!! We used to go to school together, and even throughout school he was really sweet.

 

I hate waiting! Makes me feel nervous! LOL

[Mun]

So don't wait! Get out and do something.

 

If he doesn't call in a couple of days give him a ring "just to say hi"

maybe he will ask you out again. Just don't stress yourself over it or if he takes too long to get back to you you will be annoyed and blow it. Relax!

[itsallgrand]

You are still on the high of meeting someone decent and who you liked being with! lol.

 

Time to burn some energy and clear your head. Nothing to worry about. Things are going well. Now only to keep from tripping on your own feet, right.

[AngryHeart]

1. I doubt he would hang out for eight hours if he was not interested (and even that is a lot of work for some booty....)

 

2. I would not start saying he is "everything you want" until you know him beyond a few dates. Just enjoy it and getting to know him. You don't know HIM yet, only what he appears to be on a "fun date" without much pressure and so on.

 

3. Relax, it's only the next day.

 

4. Nothing wrong with sending him an email or call, but I would another day or two and keep it short and simple and then let him follow up (i.e. don't keep following up).

 

 

I'm with her

 

Relax. It's only the next day. Eveything should be fine. If you don't hear from him soon, call or message him! He obviously does like you or he wouldn't ahve spend 8 hours with you, LOL! You sound just like me...your own worse enemy!! Give it a few days before you even start to worry, hun. Best of luck - keep us updated!

[annie24]

1. I doubt he would hang out for eight hours if he was not interested (and even that is a lot of work for some booty....)

 

2. I would not start saying he is "everything you want" until you know him beyond a few dates. Just enjoy it and getting to know him. You don't know HIM yet, only what he appears to be on a "fun date" without much pressure and so on.

 

3. Relax, it's only the next day.

 

4. Nothing wrong with sending him an email or call, but I would another day or two and keep it short and simple and then let him follow up (i.e. don't keep following up).

 

agreed!!! many guys like to 'play it cool' and wait a few days before calling so they don't seem overeager. i wouldn't worry, and like mun said, go out and do something else - go see your friends, clean out your room, etc.... i bet he will call. and besides, you don't know him yet, so you really don't know if he is your mr. everything

 

good luck

[ghost69]

women i swear. u meet a nice one and you freak out. you meet a bad one and you freak out. chill. lol. i think he likes you. i know i wouldn't hang out with a girl for 8 hours and do more stuff if i didn't dig her at all.

[SuperConfused]

If he doesn't like you, he's a very charming liar based on your description of the time spent with him on your date.

 

I would relax, and let him come to you. Us men, well, we will pursue women we have interest in. If we don't, and you try coming onto us, you'll get an almost definite answer on where you stand. We'll either put you off (give all the excuses in the book without telling you what days we're off or available), or fit you in any way possible. The latter suggests he is interested.

 

Beyond that, if he contacts you for another date - you can be sure he has interest in you. He definitely sees you as at least a very nice person, if he spent 8 hours with you.

[SuperConfused]

If he doesn't like you, he's a very charming liar based on your description of the time spent with him on your date.

 

I would relax, and let him come to you. Us men, well, we will pursue women we have interest in. If we don't, and you try coming onto us, you'll get an almost definite answer on where you stand. We'll either put you off (give all the excuses in the book without telling you what days we're off or available), or fit you in any way possible. The latter suggests he is interested.

 

Beyond that, if he contacts you for another date - you can be sure he has interest in you. He definitely sees you as at least a very nice person, if he spent 8 hours with you.