boonts Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 [this may get lengthy, sorry] i've had a pretty embarrassing night recently. i got completely black out drunk/wasted and apparently threw up all over the place and made a mess at the end of the night at a party. i guess we all have one of those nights, this was my first (hopefully my last). the thing is, i was hanging out with a friend i've been interested in and prior to me going into a drunken state, we had been talking about me joining in on a snowboarding trip she was set to go on. all seemed well and i figured it'd be a great way to spend a little more time with her as well as get some good boarding in this season. apparently while i was a drunken mess, i had been dancing with and groping her inappropriately. i honestly don't rembmer any of this, but i know that doesn't excuse my actions and i'm super uber embarrassed by it. she didn't seem upset or offended from what i hear, more like it was amusing how out of control i was (since i'm usually just quiet and reserved). she had even helped me get to a friends house by driving me in her car to his car and helped get me up to his apartment. i gave her a call the following day to apologize for all the trouble and the stink i've left in her car, she was friendly and we laughed about it and i offered to pay for any cleaning she might need to have done to her car. she said it'd be fine and she'll just febreze it or whatever, but i feel reallllly bad about it and i know vomit can stink like no other. i just feel really stupid about the whole thing and still want to try and help with the car stink but dunno if maybe i should just leave her alone from now on. there's also the snowboarding thing but i feel like i should forget about that as well. so, any advice for someone feeling very low and dumb about himself, looking to find some redemption? Link to comment
wiser Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Stop beating yourself up. She's ok with it and she does not want you to pay her back or help her with the cleaning. Get past it and get back to business as usual. Someday, if you two get married, think of what a great story it will be for your grandchildren. Link to comment
avman Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 I think you should maybe give her a gift certificate to your local auto detailing place for an interior cleaning. That would be a very nice guesture. You are right, vomit inside the car will stink something awful and it is hard to clean. When you give her the gift certificate, why don't you ask her out? Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Ah, that was a cute story, who the hell hasn't made an ass of themselves on occasion? Don't worry about it.... xxx Sandy Link to comment
Lionel Hutz Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Don't they have "Sorry I puked all over your place" cards? J/K. You should be fine bro. Try not to act too embarrased about it. I would capitalize by saying "I have to buy you dinner to say thanks for helping me while I was being a total lush." We have all done stupid crap while drunk, some even end up in jail. But this is something you can really turn around. Link to comment
wiser Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Reminds me of the time I was in college and we had a dorm party in the basement. The kegs were flowing and I picked up a girl that I had my eyes on for a while. Still remember her name. Shari. And this was 25 years ago. We were both drunk, and laying in my bed, and we were kissing, and our tongues were going round and round, and I started getting really nauseous all of a sudden. I realized I was going to be sick, I pulled away...she pulled me closer and kept kissing me, round and round... I pulled firmly away and staggered to the door. Vomited all over the floor. Staggered back to bed and continued where we left off. I swear she licked some chunks off of my teeth and gums. The room stunk, and we didn't even care... Link to comment
Snoopy24 Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Yea..i actually think the gift certificate would be nice. Not only for the smell. but she had to clean up your vomit. That's not really a fun thing to do. but don't beat yourself up about it. I actually have two story's that are WAY worse than yours. (nope, not going to share them haha) so just try to control how much you drink and forget about it. Link to comment
wiser Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 I actually have two story's that are WAY worse than yours. (nope, not going to share them haha) No fair. This is a perfect thread for puke-sharing stories and would make the OP feel much better. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Wow you should be ASHAMED of yourself. just playin. she sounds like she was okay with it. I think the gift certificate for auto detailing was a good one. And yeah ask her out when you give it to her. For so long as this is not in the norm for you don't beat yourself up. Link to comment
Snoopy24 Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 No fair. This is a perfect thread for puke-sharing stories and would make the OP feel much better. Who said they were "puke" stories? haha Link to comment
wiser Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Who said they were "puke" stories? haha Bring it on! Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Hey Wiser, don't nag my pal Snoopy! Link to comment
Censored Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Gift certificate for cleaning the car, and a Apology dinner to get back in the saddle with her. All good suggestions. Link to comment
Mandyish Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 sounds like she likes you still so no worries Link to comment
Snoopy24 Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Bring it on! Haha..whatever I don't care.. one I was half naked dancing on the bar. the other i was on a date, went to the bathroom never came out. He found me blacked out in the bathroom floor. Both of them I don't remember after a certain point in the night lol and they were like 5 years ago. I don't drink really drink liquor anymore. Link to comment
Snoopy24 Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Hey Wiser, don't nag my pal Snoopy! Thanks Sandy!! hehe Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 ^Ahh how cute, I once had a fight with the current past boyfriend, was drunk, could not find my shoes.... so I wore his size 12 slippers when I left him there.... ... Fell down running home.... oh my, cop car stopped and they were laughing at me... wasn't pretty at all.... Cut my nose to hell, still have the scars... do NOT try this at home... Link to comment
Snoopy24 Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 ^Ahh how cute, I once had a fight with the current past boyfriend, was drunk, could not find my shoes.... so I wore his size 12 slippers when I left him there.... ... Fell down running home.... oh my, cop car stopped and they were laughing at me... wasn't pretty at all.... Cut my nose to hell, still have the scars... do NOT try this at home... haha aww that's funny. Did they give you a ride home? Link to comment
wiser Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Many years ago...between HS and college...I was a counselor in sleepaway camp. Once a week, the counselors who had off would go into town, to the one bar that was open. I was dating the camp nurse, and I finally was able to convince her to come to the bar with us. She was somewhat shy, and hesitant, but she went. She trusted me... So we get to the bar, and several counselors were already there, sitting at a big round table, playing a beer drinking game known as "quarters". The game requires whoevers turn it is to bounce a quarter off the table and into an empty glass. If they get it in, they point, using their elbows only, at the "victim", who must guzzle a beer. If they point with their fingers, by accident, they must drink the beer themselves. Because we were late arrivals, and I had my GF with me, I was the victim most of the time. It was like every 30 seconds another elbow was pointed my way. I drank ALOT of beer, in a very short period of time, and got very drunk, and very full, and started to not feel so good. But there was no stopping me, I had a GF to impress! Suddenly, I had an almost "out of body experience". It was like I was looking down at myself, through a hazy "fog", as my mouth erupted like a geyser and spewed a beer/vomit mixture all over the table. All the chairs were pushed back in unision...and I heard gasps and laughter as I staggered away from the table and out to the parking lot. She came out of the bar, helped me to the car, and we drove back to camp. Needless to say, there was no goodnight kiss. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Haha..whatever I don't care.. one I was half naked dancing on the bar. Okay I think you are going to have to share the videos now snoopy! Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Yep, they were laughing, but escorted me into the car... ahhh my God, I was mortified at my stupid behaviour that night.... The bf (or whatever he is) still thinks its funny, I sure as hell don't..... but at least no one got killed over it... so .... ahh well.... Link to comment
JadedStar Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 God I have to share my story now....we were out at a bar about a year ago and i was with my husband and his best friend and his new g/f. GOD that girl was an annoying creature. She got plastered and wanted to dance on the bar...heck i am up for an occasional crazy thing so up we went....then i got down and tried to behave, she got back down then wanted to go up again and i am like "no, i don't think you should" and her b/f said it too. She was far more drunk than any of us- i make it a point to get a nice buzz but not drunk if we go out drinking and nothing more - but of course she goes back up on the bar anyway and on her way up fell down so ungracefully on her ass and i tried so hard not to laugh while helping her up. I had to laugh because this was the most obnoxious human being i ever met. LOL they are no longer together. I still chuckle when i think about it. She was trying to be so sexy and then Link to comment
wiser Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 but of course she goes back up on the bar anyway and on her way up fell down so ungracefully on her ass and i tried so hard not to laugh while helping her up. LOL they are no longer together. Ironic...They are no longer together, but you said she "fell for him". LOL. Link to comment
greensleeves Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 Been there! I still have good memories of the date who held my head while I threw up on the side of the highway in a stupor. Don't let this girl slip through your fingers because of embarrassment...she sounds very cool!!! The gift certificate is a great idea....and ASK HER OUT!!!! Link to comment
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