how do I move on?

[mengms]

I have posted a million times on here about my relationship with my ex. We were together for two years - we lived together for one. He ended it cause h esaid he just wasn't ready and he just couldn't do it.

 

Two months after he FINALL moved out of our shared apartment, he met htis girl and hooked up with her. Well, 3 months after that (now) they are officially a couple.

 

I don't kn ow how to deal with this. I feel so replaceable, so misused, so tossed aside like an old sock. ANd she's pretty.

 

help!

[wiser]

She isn't any better than you are. She just met his needs in a different way. Someday you will find someone that will do the same for you.

 

Better to find out now, then after you are locked into a marriage and have children with this guy. Every cloud has that silver lining.

[Pinkbunny]

Don't worry about the other girl. She might just be a rebound. I would be skeptical of that relationship even lasting since it seems as though he jumped into it quickly. Anyway don't discount yourself and who you are!!!! the truth is YOU are NOT REPLACEABLE period. Don't even say that please! Whether or not your ex realizes this doesn't matter. Move on. Don't contact him for now.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

Just think of it this way, he couldn't commit to you...if he hasn't sorted himself out then likely this new woman will end up where you are now...discarded because he wasn't ready. It is not you, it is him. He treated you shabbily at the end...he didn't exit with grace and class. That means whatever he has now with this new person is just the front he is putting on until he really hooks her. After that, his classless self will come out again. It sounds to me that he just needs to have a woman around to fulfill his needs...hence immediately embarking on a new relationship.

[AutumnBorn]

Let's think about you here. What are you doing to grow and heal? He had second thoughts. He wasn't the right guy for you. He's done you a favor. You don't know it yet, but he has. There's clearly something wrong with him.

 

Wiser, you're looking really good these days. I don't know what you're doing, but keep it up.