frenzie Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Hey guys here is quite a stupid question but just wondering if anyone has tried and if it has worked. Has anyone actually just plain and simply asked thier ex for another chance after a period of NC and they agreed to it? Link to comment
wiser Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 It seems counterproductive. Obviously the person asking is the one who was dumped. By asking for a "chance" you are coming accross as needy, clingy, dependent and weak. It can also be assumed that the dumper has not contacted the dumpee during the NC, otherwise the question would not need to be asked. So, I cannot answer your question because I never did it, but I dont recommend it. Link to comment
frenzie Posted December 16, 2007 Author Share Posted December 16, 2007 Ok thanks. Yeah i realise that it would be counterproductive but just wondering if anyone has tried it and got a positive response. Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 No, I never asked, he just assumes I want him back... hahaha the joke is on him ...... Link to comment
frenzie Posted December 16, 2007 Author Share Posted December 16, 2007 No, I never asked, he just assumes I want him back... hahaha the joke is on him ...... Are you the dumper or dumpee? Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 Well, no one officially dumped anyone in my case, its kind of a weird situation... I've told him to hit the bricks a few times... just can't get it through his head... Although I hate losing him in a way I can't quite understand myself.... damnn, I don't know... I guess we are both messed up in this case.... Link to comment
Pocket Rocket Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 This sounds a lot like begging, and I know that doesn't work if they dumped you it is really their responsibility to step up and ask for you back, if the haven't chances are they're moving on and if you break NC and they reject you again, you'll have to start from square 1. Link to comment
Mysterygirl Posted December 16, 2007 Share Posted December 16, 2007 You should never feel the need to beg to have someone in your life. In the same respect, if you are both still single I see nothing wrong with you letting him know that you still have feelings for him. And take it from there. I wouldn't necessarily sit the guy down and explain that you are still in love with him, but rather casually let him know that you have been thinking alot about him lately and was wondering if he has been thinking about you .. The worse that can happen is that he does not have those same feelings. And thats ok .. better to know now, then wonder all your life .. Link to comment
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