"When a man says"

[alcide]

When a man is interested in you and he says to you he doesn't care if you have a boyfriend he just wants you. thereforeeee he doesn't mind you being with your boyfriend but still wants you.

 

What do you think, does that mean he just out to use you? or doesnt want anything much? whats your opinion?

[WTHUWY]

When a man is interested in you and he says to you he doesn't care if you have a boyfriend he just wants you. thereforeeee he doesn't mind you being with your boyfriend but still wants you.

 

What do you think, does that mean he just out to use you? or doesnt want anything much? whats your opinion?

 

It means he doesn't have respect for the fact that you have a man and he's hoping you don't either. So more then likely he just wants sex.

[NO1GR8r]

When a man is interested in you and he says to you he doesn't care if you have a boyfriend he just wants you. thereforeeee he doesn't mind you being with your boyfriend but still wants you.

 

What do you think, does that mean he just out to use you? or doesnt want anything much? whats your opinion?

 

Does the term "booty call" come to mind. No strings attached. You have no right to question him and he can have his cake, icecream, and whatever else he wants - and eat it too - and eat yours and someone elses.

Get it?

[Batya33]

He doesn't care because he's not looking for a commitment from you and probably doesn't want one. Also shows that he lacks respect for other peoples' commitments. Real winner.

[alcide]

Does the term "booty call" come to mind. No strings attached. You have no right to question him and he can have his cake, icecream, and whatever else he wants - and eat it too - and eat yours and someone elses.

Get it?

 

NO I DIDNT GET IT?

[Clementine orange]

It means he's got a girlfriend (or whatever) so that if the two of you hook up then he won't feel as guilty.

[jettison]

When a man is interested in you and he says to you he doesn't care if you have a boyfriend he just wants you. thereforeeee he doesn't mind you being with your boyfriend but still wants you.

 

What do you think, does that mean he just out to use you? or doesnt want anything much? whats your opinion?

 

I think it's pretty clear that it means exactly what he says it means... he wants you. He can't care that you have a boyfriend because it's not his place to care about that, nor show any disapproval. Afterall, you're taken.

 

I was dating my GF of sometime, and a woman told me that she wanted me and wished that I didn't have to have a GF. Later, once I was single, I contacted her again, but she now had a serious BF. So, I told her that I wanted her and said, "Why do you have to have a BF."

 

All that said, it's much easier to be perfectly frank and straightforward with someone when you know there's no responsibility behind it. You can tell a taken person "I want you, I adore you, I wish you were mine", and you don't actually have to worry that they'll reply with "I want you, I adore you, I wish you were mine" in return because, afterall, they're taken. Be careful what you wish for!!!

 

If you say this to a single person then you have to make damn sure that you mean it, that you'll mean it after you sleep with the person, and that you're likely to mean it months down the road. You can't just say it because it strikes your fancy and run roughshot over someone's sanity.

 

A taken person is safer target in that way.

[scotty77]

You mean he wants you to remain with your boyfriend but see him on the side or he wants you to break up with your boyfriend so you can be with him? It is an easy thing to say one should never develop an interest in someone who is supposedly taken but it can be hard to control one' s feelings.I would suspect that the majority of relationships end because one party has met someone else.

[ghost69]

means he steps on guy's toes and doesn't care about a woman and her feelings and will try and throw wrenches where he can try and break something. these guys get beat up all the time.