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How do you know a date is not going well and when should you leave the date than?

Aaron20b

By Aaron20b
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ghost69 Mentor

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if you have nothing in common.

 

if she seems like she is a total B*.

 

if you tell her something about yourself and she makes fun of you and it's not a funny story.

 

if you say you like this and that and she is like 'nope' and 'nope' with no elaboration.

 

crappy attitude on life.

wiser Apprentice

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Bad signs include:

 

She isnt maintaining eye contact with you.

 

She resists your attempts to lightly touch her arm during conversation.

 

She isnt paying attention to you when you talk.

 

She scratches her balls.

annie24 Grand Master

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if it's a 1st, 2nd, 3rd date, you can keep it short anyways, it doesn't have to be a long, drawn out night. meet for coffee, ice cream, dessert, etc.

 

agree with the others about lack of eye contact, she seems uninterested, flirting with other guys, etc....

wiser Apprentice

wiser

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Other signs I thought of:

 

bad: gets texts and cell phone calls during the date

 

worse: reads the texts and/or answers the phone

 

worst: says "I will meet up with you later honey, after I get rid of this dork"

wiser Apprentice

wiser

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I would have to say that the date would start going bad from her perspective the minute she told you that she would go out with you. She apparently has no idea what she is in for.

 

Why do I have the feeling this post will not go over well.

Cheesemaster Newbie

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I would have to say that the date would start going bad from her perspective the minute she told you that she would go out with you. She apparently has no idea what she is in for.

 

Eh? Elaborate, cause it comes off as spiteful

Aaron20b Community Regular

Aaron20b

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I would have to say that the date would start going bad from her perspective the minute she told you that she would go out with you. She apparently has no idea what she is in for.

 

Well at least I can get dates....

Need_some_help Apprentice

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Why do I have the feeling this post will not go over well.
Lol, who knows...Realistically, i was only joking (a little)

 

Well at least I can get dates....

 

Even a blind squirrel finds a nut every once in a while, and Ray Charles also hit veins every now and then!!!

 

i have yet to see where you post about one.

 

He posts about them all the time, he touches them inappropriately, he hounds them before they get to know him, and he says inappropriate things to them.

 

Ultimately i was joking, unfortunately there is too much truth to what i said.

wiser Apprentice

wiser

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he touches them inappropriately, he hounds them before they get to know him, and he says inappropriate things to them.

 

You just described a typical Evilken date.

blondy Apprentice

blondy

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evilken,

 

try just having a good time on the date and who gives a crap if she is interested or not at this point. you need to try some new angles because what you've been doing just isnt working. if she likes you, great, if not, oh well. make room for the next one. you lay on the inappropriate affection like molasses and get googley eyed over virtual strangers. this will make anyone run for the hills.

 

why dont you try acting the opposite like you dont WANT a girlfriend? learn to love the single life. or give the impression that your perfectly happy being Single Ken. girls love a challenge, not a doormat. now drill this into your brain, please......you are becoming your own worst enemy.

Tethys Contributor

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Come on, you guys, be nice -- I think we have established that Evilken has a hard time reading a woman on dates, so he really could use this advice about what to look for. I think he is asking a sincere question, and we shouldn't pile on him for that.

wiser Apprentice

wiser

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The problem is that he refutes all of the good advice he is given by you and others, and defends himself with fake videos and poor examples.

Tethys Contributor

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Wiser,

 

I am very familiar with his past threads, but I think we should tell him what to look for on a date as he obviously has trouble in that arena. He's not doing any of that stuff (videos, etc) here!

wiser Apprentice

wiser

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Wiser,

 

I am very familiar with his past threads, but I think we should tell him what to look for on a date as he obviously has trouble in that arena. He's not doing any of that stuff (videos, etc) here!

 

Tethys, you give great advice and you have a great attitude but I bet it would chance the SECOND he drank out of your soda.

wiser Apprentice

wiser

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LOL -- you mean my Mountain Dew??

 

Whatever it is that you are drinking on your date with Evilken. You will have one hand covering your soda and the other deflecting his advances.

Tethys Contributor

Tethys

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Well, I was being a bit mean with the Mountain Dew as Ken mentioned the soda in one of his posts on a date that Went Very Wrong. So, Ken, if you are still there -- on your date, don't touch the girl. That can make a girl uncomfortable when she doesn't know you very well and you touch her. (I'm thinking about the thread you posted on loveshack.) And, by all means, DO NOT ask her to touch you.

 

Be lighthearted and carefree on your date, don't act desperate, and I'd advise you NOT to try to kiss her at the end of the date. Be very observant of her body language throughout.

 

Good luck!

wiser Apprentice

wiser

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So, Ken, if you are still there -- on your date, don't touch the girl. That can make a girl uncomfortable when she doesn't know you very well and you touch her. And, by all means, DO NOT ask her to touch you.

 

And even though Tehys left out one thing, do NOT take her hand and place it anywhere on your body.

wiser Apprentice

wiser

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women go on dates to get touched. no?

 

start this thread and see how many NOs you get.

 

No...I mean...yes...I mean...I hope they do?

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