Reaching the summit

[Gryphon]

For me I know I'm over someone when a get that amazing lightweight feeling of total freedom like my life is totally my own and the future is mine to shape as I wish.

 

I liken the feeling to reaching the summit of a mountain after an arduous climb.

 

How do you know you've finally recovered after a breakup once and for all?

[sbux_addict]

My lithmus test has always been:

 

- if I see them holding hands with somebody, and they look completely happy, and you feel happy for them because they've found happiness, even though it means not being with you.

- If thinking about them makes you smile (because of the good memories) but you no longer long for them. You just like thinking about the good times, and it doesn't hurt thinking about them.

- If you cannot picture yourself making love with them, and the thought of it makes you cringe.

 

If I've achieved those, then, I think I'm over somebody...