Age difference with connection

[Pieter]

Hi,

 

Do you people think that a serious relationship between a man of 28 and a woman of 20 years could work? I must say that we have an intense connection - I have never felt about someone this way - she is everything I dreamed of. Yes I know the age difference is huge. She does not know how I feel about her, but she keeps contact and I know she feels the same about me. I don’t think age difference should be an issue in this case - because the connection we have - is out of this world - it’s been going on for a year and that connection never disappear.

 

Regards

Pieter

[Phaser]

Its not 'that' huge. Go for it really its not like you are 65 chasing a 25 year old.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

I followed your previous posts so I gather that you and your wife are now separated and in the process of divorce?

 

If the 20 year old is interested in you and you are interested in her, then go for it. I personally couldn't be with someone 8 years older than me but lots of women have no problem with the age difference and there are lots of marriages of couples with an 8+ age difference.

[Clementine orange]

Age difference isn't that much. You are still both in your 20s...

Go for it, I say

[Dako]

Do you enjoy each other and feel happy in the relationship?

If so, enjoy it.

[ghost69]

i've seen worse age differences. if you have a connection, F it. go for it. have fun.

[Orlander]

Age is just a number, but if she starts asking you to buy her liquor so she and her friends can get drunk then you may need to rethink dating her.

 

Seriously, a deep connection can happen between two people of any age.

[shikashika]

you said, "we have a connection" but then you said she doesn't know how you feel. Shouldn't it be mutual if you have a connection?

 

i'm not normally a fan of huge age gap relationships, but in this case its not so big.

 

give it a go!

[bigthings46]

I don't think age matters but I will say that girls in their early 20's are nothing but headaches. Chances are by the time she turns 21 she will be in the bars and clubs loving the attention she gets from dudes and will leave you in the dust. Just speaking from experience though.

[Clementine orange]

Age is just a number, but if she starts asking you to buy her liquor so she and her friends can get drunk then you may need to rethink dating her.

 

Seriously, a deep connection can happen between two people of any age.

 

Haha on the first sentance, but totally true on the second.

[Phaser]

Exactly, I have on cousin who is 32 I think, and married to a 46 year old or something like that.

And nother cousin whose turning 40 or is 40 and married just in October to a 26 year old.

Crazy.

[Pieter]

Hi CAD - jip the divorce process is over. I am picking up the pieces of my life and defenitely have a connection with this girl that is out of this world. The reason why I said she does not know how I feel about her is because I have not said it yet - but we both are showing it with body language - the way she speaks, the things se ask. I dont want to go into a serious relationship too early after the things I have been through. She is a jewel - I do not want to hurt her in any way - at this stage, only enjoying her friendship. I think it will anyway take me a while before I go into a serious relationship. Thing is - I do not want to 'fill' the gap which has been caused by the divorce - she is genuine everything I love about a woman - I did not have this feeling with my wife at any stage - so this cannot be wrong.