She dosent want to.

[enon23]

My girls is a squirter (yay!) thank god for he has blessed me, but she never wants to cum (AW!) on rare occasions she has, i even made her cum 3 times but, she never really wants to cum she intentionally has mental blocks to keep her self from coming i tried to explain and i have proved that if she cums more often she would be less of a * * * * * (just kidding) but after she does shes is happy likes she high but how can i help her get off this inhebition so she can let the flood gates open

 

oh yeah why is it when i do make her cum i can never find that rhythem again. what are some pointers to keep me going without forgeting that stroke.

[ghost69]

that's cool man. glad you are really into getting your girl off. but if you are pushing for her to cum all the time, she is probably embarrassed and thinks you think she is weird for doing that.

 

pay attention to your movement and not the squirt. you are losing focus and rhythm.

[EQD]

i agree, as a girl who has the potential to cum, if she is like me she is probably embarrassed about it. And will only allow herself to let go if she feels absolutely calm and relaxed, mentally and physically. Best thing for you to do is don't pressure her. She has to be really really relaxed, this may take some Hard work and dedication i won't lie to you, but once she gets comfortable with it being a natural reaction that she has during sex, it should happen alot more often.

[Lucy_lou]

My girls is a squirter (yay!) thank god for he has blessed me, but she never wants to cum (AW!) on rare occasions she has, i even made her cum 3 times but, she never really wants to cum she intentionally has mental blocks to keep her self from coming i tried to explain and i have proved that if she cums more often she would be less of a * * * * * (just kidding) but after she does shes is happy likes she high but how can i help her get off this inhebition so she can let the flood gates open

 

oh yeah why is it when i do make her cum i can never find that rhythem again. what are some pointers to keep me going without forgeting that stroke.

 

 

So I'm a little unclear on the conversations you two are having. is she telling you she doesn't want to ejaculate? or are you assuming that because she isn't that she doesn't want to? what is it that has made you believe she has mental blocks? did she tell you that? are you nagging her to squirt? (if she feels like you're like a little boy at a carnival incessantly trying to get some exciting gimick to take place, then that's going to make her feel like a circus freak before a roaring crowd shouting "do something freaky!" not very dignified (not that I'm saying that you're treating her like a gimick. you just didn't give sufficient information).

 

as for pointers to make it happen more easily (assuming she wants to, because I've heard women can keep it in)

 

having sex on a surface that you can afford to get a soaking is a start. having a soaked mattress is a drag, and she might stop herself to avoid the mess. If you're trying to make her ejaculate just with your penis, then I'd say angling it up so that it repeatedly hits her g-spot is the way to go. But I think fingers are more effective than a penis at getting at that area. in my experience, repeatedly putting pressure on that area, (like the choke on a lawn mower, sorry for the crappy analogy) might be good. There are brilliant sex toys which have been proven to make non squirters squirt buckets, which are curved. If you're both into using toys, there's some nice glass and steel curved"wands" on the market you could invest in.