Things I learned from my breakup

[lavalamp777]

So its been almost 3 months now since my breakup, if you need info about my breakup go look at the cyber relationships.

 

I am really surprised I am doing so well after how I felt the first month. I always imagined how it would be when I was young to be in love with someone and thought about how my future soulmate would be like. I realize now that although thoughts like these when your young are really cute, they are very far fetched from what actual reality is.

 

I think my biggest challenge was actually getting over the fact that I thought she was the one for me, and my disbelief of how cold blooded she turned in the span of a day saying she dident love me anymore. I now look back at all this and laugh at how dumb I was, and the only thing I regret are those childhood thoughts.

 

Right now I am at the stage of actually being thankful at having a relationship to take and learn from, and be more prepared in life for what is to come, in a way it has given me a wake up into reality from my dream world of "find your one true love and stay with them for the rest of your life". That's what I was taught anyways, I am catholic and still value the morals. I guess nice guys do finish last, but it doesnt mean they can't learn from it, I certainly did.