Right Decision??

[rtoycrow]

I was with my girlfriend last night and she received a call from her ex and he told her that his grandmother had died. She said she felt sorry for him and wanted to go either to her funeral or the visitation because she felt since she was with him for a year and a half it would be the right thing to do. She asked if i minded and I told her no, that would be fine if she went. Now I am worried that when she goes she will feel bad for him and feelings will return. Was I right in telling her it would be ok with me if she went. She has broken up with me before and got back with him but she broke up with him after only a month and we got back together and have been together ever since. I just don't wanna seem like I am jealous or pocessive type and I think if I would have told her no it would have pushed her away from me. Did I do right??

[Bunney]

Why don't you just go with her?

 

 

 

If her feelings for him return & she leaves you, you'll know she isn't the right one for you. See it as a test.

[keenan]

You did the right thing. More importantly, you did the only thing you could possibly have done, given the circumstances. Regardless of your fears about your girlfriend and her ex reuniting, you simply cannot be the guy who makes her feel guilty for going to a funeral.

[Gath]

I agree with Bunney, if she goes to the funeral, ask if you can go with her.

[rtoycrow]

Well I would but I am almost positve that he doesn't like me at all and I don't want to create any problems because this guy she was with is not one the nicest people and I am sure it would cause a problem.

[keenan]

It's a funeral for his family. If he doesn't want you there, don't go. It's not a social event.