GULP. Size

[RedSox]

so this girl wants to like have sex with me. she kinda seems like a player but i cant fully tell yet. she knows im a virgin but shes really persstant. I want to but she has said some thing like "as long as your not short where it matters, were good to go".

im only like 5 inches.

im pretty sure shes going to not like that and maybe not want to.

 

sorry im really embarrassed.

help?

[rocio]

You are plenty big enough. But don't sleep with her or anyone else until you're ready on your own terms.

[Russ]

The average (95%) of males in North America are 5-6 inches. Don't even waste time thinking she's had any bigger. Just don't resort to enlargement drugs or pumps.

 

I figure if she just wants sex from you, you should figure out if you want a relationship or just someone to have fun with everyone weekend. I doubt you could get both out of her.

[soul_soother]

she sounds like a player personally if a girl says "as long as your not small down there we're good to go.." that kinda flares up she's a player

[Hearts]

I so agree with soul_soother.

She sounds like she just wants sex nothing else more than that.

[Phaser]

Pfft if she cares that much she ain't worth the time. By that I mean if she runs away when you get naked (obviously extreme but I think you know what I mean.)

[Boughs]

16 is too young for a fling. Get into a relationship before is my suggestion. It'll make you happier you did.

[Censored]

Ummmm, dude, one thing you'll learn rather quickly is that it doesn't matter how small you think you are.

 

As long as YOU get off, then don't worry about it

 

Oh j/k btw

[EQD]

i wouldnt have sex with her, she sounds loose.. but i will say that i have slept with two guys that size and they both knocked my socks off.. and actually i would prefer someone that size because its more comfortable.. its those 8'' guys that are hard to put up with.

[someguy88]

MAybe she wasn't serious? She could just be teasing you a bit.

[Censored]

^ Yeah i agree i think it was just some flirty fun.....

[AhypnoticSuggestion]

just have sex with her and enjoy it. i have avoided and feared these situations all my life; i blew so many great opportunities with really cute girls because i was worried about my size.

 

if i hadn't been such a wimp i could look back and reflect on some great sex, even if the girl didn't have fun because i wasn't big enough for her.

 

instead i only have regrets to look back on, which aren't nearly as enjoyable.

[theartofruin]

If you want to get laid, go for it. You're normal size and nothing to worry about. I'm sure she was referring to like a 1 inch stump or something. If she DID make a comment to you during/after, just make one back about one of her insecurities.

 

And like the other dude said -- this is just sex/fling, so who cares if you don't satisfy her. Use her.

[JeckyllNHyde]

Yea she pretty much said she wants to be used/use you for sex by saying indirectly that all that really matters is that you have a d**k and that it's not small.

[servedcold]

Lots of women will "talk tough" about penis size as a power/manipulation tactic. Don't date these women, but if you get a chance to sleep with them, make sure they can't walk straight the next day...

 

Seriously, a woman who talks like this is not the best candidate to lose your virginity with, as she will almost inevitably make fun of you when you come very quickly, which is highly likely on your first go. Shop around until you find a normal, relatively inexperienced girl to lose it with. Best wishes.

[Day_Walker]

there is no need to be embarrassed about what you have, because that is all that you are ever going to have. No one can tell you who you should and shouldnt have sex with. If you want to have sex with her then have sex with her, if you dont then dont. Life is about choices and learning from those choices you are going to make mistakes and all you have to do is learn from the mistakes you make.

[ghost69]

don't worry. get her in the heat of the moment if you really want to. bang her lights out. she won't care. be confident in what size you have. she was probably trying to get you embarrassed to where you are like 'i'm not THAT big'.

[Puckdog27]

Im telling you size doesnt matter, they would rather you hit it hard. Study porns and "how to" guides if need be and bang them like a rock star. Forget making love, get nasty.

[wiser]

What are you looking for?

 

Do you just want to lose your virginity and add that first notch to your belt? If so, then go for it. She may be a bit disappointed, but so what? You aren't going to marry this girl.

 

That much said, I think it's much more enjoyable if your first sex is with a chick that you are comfortable with, and in a relationship with.

 

My "virginity breaker" was around age 16 with a girl who had experience, and she took it slow and steady, and showed me the ropes. It was great. No feeling of awkwardness or embarrassment or not knowing what to do.

[ghost69]

my first time was not a relationship. i was 17 and she was 24. i wasn't scared as she got me drunk. knocked her out of the park. she didn't say anything about size or anything. i was a bit scared about it as she was older and had been married before. she had no idea i was a virgin.

[h0rnyr0b0t]

welcome to the 5'inch club ;p

if your just looking just for sex, give it to her.

if your looking for like a relationship, maybe you shouldnt with a girl like her, seems a tad loose ^^

[pesh]

So she says she'll sleep with you as long as your package isn't too small? *red flag goes up* I would advise against going through with this. Lose your virginity (or just have sex in general) with girls who are in love/interested in the way YOU are and not how big your penis is.

[ryan250]

Giver her hell buddy!

[ghost69]

i bet this girl is a virgin and just jokes about crap with her friends. i remember girls like this when i was growing up.