Need some help please

[jebus123]

I need advice ena,

Ok, well i met this girl threw a friend and she told me that the girl thought i looked good. So i get her number and talk to her on aim. About 3 weeks later she wants to hang out with me. Well i hang out with her and then we end up making out for a good part of the night. She said she wanted to hang out again. So i ask her the next day if she wanted to go to the movies. She said yes and then before we were about to go she left me for her friend to go to the mall. Now she hasn't really talked to me in a few days. I am getting the feeling that she is loosing interest in me. Should i just tell her that i am interested in her?

 

Thanks for your replys.

[ghost69]

you asked her to the movies. you displayed your interest. i'd take it as a loss and move on.

[Dating Coach]

I need advice ena,

Ok, well i met this girl threw a friend and she told me that the girl thought i looked good. So i get her number and talk to her on aim. About 3 weeks later she wants to hang out with me. Well i hang out with her and then we end up making out for a good part of the night. She said she wanted to hang out again. So i ask her the next day if she wanted to go to the movies. She said yes and then before we were about to go she left me for her friend to go to the mall. Now she hasn't really talked to me in a few days. I am getting the feeling that she is loosing interest in me. Should i just tell her that i am interested in her?

 

Thanks for your replys.

 

She KNOWS you are interested in her. What do you think telling her is going to do? Do you think you going out with her, making out with her, and then asking her out on a second date tells her that you aren't interested? bro, she knows.

 

She ditched your plans to go out with her friend. I think the only one out of you two whom doesn't seem to know who's interested is you unfortunately. Her actions currently are that of someone of Low Interest. She ditched you to go to the mall.

 

And what is your response to this slap in the face? "Should I try more?" C'mon bro, you should have IMMEDIATELY dismissed this girl after her ditching you. Show some self respect! I say this not to insult you, but to let you know that you're being a pushover. She ditches you and you want to throw yourself at her more. that's the opposite of what you should be doing!

[jebus123]

I would really hate to just give up. She is one of the only girl that has ever shown that much interest in me.

[imanda]

You would probably sound desperate if you did anything to further show your interest. If she is trying to get you to chase (which I don't really think she is, but hypothetically), she's gonna continue to play games like this and that's not something you want to deal with anyway.

 

Trust me, there will be more girls who are actually interested in you. Just be patient and put yourself out there. For now, don't dwell on this girl- there are plenty more out there who will truly appreciate you and looking for one can be a good distraction from this girl.

[ghost69]

if i dated all the girls that showed me interest, i would have no time to do anything. only date the girls that interest you. but here, you already tried.

[Dating Coach]

I would really hate to just give up. She is one of the only girl that has ever shown that much interest in me.

 

And she won't be the last. Move on to the next and try again. You only fail when you quit trying to meet women.