I've never felt this way about anyone before

[Iwantittoend]

My ex and I finally officially got back together yesterday. After a couple months of her dancing around the issue, she finally asked for me back. Things couldn't get any better with us. We're both on the same page with each other and are more comfortable than ever being around each other. Anytime I'm away from her, I miss her to death. I wish I could just stay with her all the time and just hold hands and cuddle. I love this girl. I told her I loved her tonight and she said the same back. She's going to be leaving for the army in a month, but we're going to do our best to keep our relationship going in that time. It's going to be tough, but I love her enough to try.

 

I never thought I'd feel this way. Just a year ago I was questioning if I'd ever have a girlfriend. Things have changed so much and I'm so grateful I met her. Anybody that says they'll be single forever are just kidding themselves. There is someone out there for everyone.

 

I love this feeling.

[cnflctd]

Please tell us how you did it.

[Iwantittoend]

Please tell us how you did it.

 

After the break up, I immediately went no contact. I didn't speak or make any type of contact with her or her family for 2 months. Then one day she sent an e-mail to me saying she needed a friend. I felt healed enough to respond, so I sent an e-mail back. The next day I called her up and we caught up. We started becoming friends again. Since that point, we haven't gone a day without talking to each other. I started coming out of my shell more with her and just showing more of my personality. I think that really attracted her and got her interested again.

 

A few weeks ago we started hugging, cuddling, and holding hands again. She initiated all of it. I asked her what we were, and she told me that we were basically together but without the label. That she didn't want to start a relationship because she's leaving in a month. But then yesterday, she told me that she had changed her mind and that she doesn't want the distance to get in the way. She knows we are meant to be together and she loves me. We both just hugged and laid there for hours in each others arms.

 

So I basically went no contact and let it all progress at a slow pace. I didn't force anything; she made all the moves. I suggest anyone that wants their ex back should go at it this way. You can't force someone to want to be with you. Just remember that.

[wiser]

Anytime I'm away from her, I miss her to death. I wish I could just stay with her all the time and just hold hands and cuddle. I love this girl. She's going to be leaving for the army in a month, but we're going to do our best to keep our relationship going in that time.

 

Congratulations on your reconciliation. That much said, it's going to be incredibly rough on you when she leaves.

[cnflctd]

Sounds wonderful at the moment. I wish so much I wouldn't have done everything wrong for weeks on end when she left. Or that I could succeed at nc now... But thanks for sharing an inspiring story and congrats.