so now what

[narcoleptic]

After suffering from a nervous breakdown due to not being able to live in westchester, dont drive have sleeping disorder and was isolated up there. My therapist told me to confront my husband. He refuses to move to queens, yet tells me he doesnt know what hes doing, that he cant take all my illnesses. and that we lost it after 7 years. I still love him, but cant physically and now mentally can no longer live in westchester and he refuses to relocate. His money is his god. Yet I did it for 6 years and tried to make it work,couldnt get any work in my fiield of respiratory therapy. Down in queens i can get some per dium work, i have back my independence in croton i was isolaated, couldnt go anywhere or do anything without a car and cant drive. He says he needs more time, but hes not travelling to queens,it would be 40 minutes, he would get up the same time and be in work even an hour earlier as his hours are 6am to 2:30 pm, its the 2:30 where he may hit some traffic coming home.

 

I was willing to try and live one week in queens one in croton, but after this breakdown cant even do that. He says he should just cut his losses yet if this happened to him i would say hey i love you so we will move to queens i drive, but I guess thats me,any ideas. He said his thanksgiving was ruined i had my breakdown then hes not ruining my xmas, He will call me in a couple of weeks, Yet he tells me if we divorce i will lose my medical coverage which i need. Yet I need closure if we are not to be together. living one week in queens the other in westchester is not a marriage , I want a husband to come home to me, to not get tired of my illnesses. Yes I bled in the brain, have a sleeping disorder, now just getting over knee surgery, but i didnt ask for it. Now he thinks all my sicknesses are in my head. Help Im confused.