It's kind of reassuring...

[mintblossom]

to see so much pain and heartfelt emotion in the breakup section. It means that people really really cared about their ex. It means they were genuine. I find that so reassuring - to know that there are people out there, men and women who miss, love, care about, and dream of their ex. This shows me that most of you have a deep capacity to care for another person - and that's really special.

 

It also gives me faith and hope that one day I can find someone who is capable of loving me and does feel such warmth and regard and love for me.

 

Not like the ex @#$@#$@$ who doesn't give a crap.

 

Afterall, I want to experience true caring. It's nice to know it's still possible even if I haven't personally felt it.

[rocio]

Even if that piece of **** isn't evolved to the point of having the capacity to care, I'm sure there are others whose lives you've touched without even being aware of it.

[Censored]

Even if that piece of **** isn't evolved to the point of having the capacity to care, I'm sure there are others whose lives you've touched without even being aware of it.

 

That is so true for everyone.......negativity bites HARD, but for some reason positivity things need to be constantly reinforced.........

[rusty_boi]

i think the only way you can really learn to love is to be hurt first

[surfjon]

Since she finally told me she had no desire to even try to reconcile, I'm looking forward to one day finding one I can shower with love, I have alot to give, she hadn't wanted it for years so I have a bumper-crop for someone someday.

 

When she finally told me "It's done", I stopped the panicky "limbo" feeling and had an odd sense of calm. I feel like being at work again and can really try to move on now.

[love4life]

Thanks for this thread, mintblossom. You're absolutely right. Even through all the hurt and pain, we can be soothed by the fact that we have the ability to love deeply.

[buckdawg]

Since she finally told me she had no desire to even try to reconcile, I'm looking forward to one day finding one I can shower with love, I have alot to give, she hadn't wanted it for years so I have a bumper-crop for someone someday.

 

When she finally told me "It's done", I stopped the panicky "limbo" feeling and had an odd sense of calm. I feel like being at work again and can really try to move on now.

 

Win!

 

I know visiting here has helped me tons. Knowing that there are others feeling the same thing I am kinda gives me hope that we'll all get through this. Although I wouldn't wish this on anyone, the connection we all share gives me strength.

[-BK-]

Since she finally told me she had no desire to even try to reconcile, I'm looking forward to one day finding one I can shower with love, I have alot to give, she hadn't wanted it for years so I have a bumper-crop for someone someday.

 

When she finally told me "It's done", I stopped the panicky "limbo" feeling and had an odd sense of calm. I feel like being at work again and can really try to move on now.

 

I'm glad to see this step in your healing, man. It's not easy, but your new attitude will make it easier going forward.